A lot of people just don't have much empathy, unfortunately. Even the kid wasn't autistic...it's a kid. Keeping them calm on public transport isn't unusual and unlike, say, a guy sitting at the back of the bus with music blaring loudly through his headphones it actually serves a purpose.
you mean like that silamic guy who made a stink about pork noises? I agree, out with him.
Seriously, people these days make mountains out of molehills far too often.
You know what I do when someone talks loud enough on the phone that I hear it clearly on the other end of the train wagon? Turn up the volume of my mp3 player, that's what. maybe that guy should have brought one, too.
Also, the racist card is beginning to show wear and tear, it seems like everyone and their dog has one or more in their deck.
Do you even know what it means to have an autistic kid?
And even if he wasn't autistic, if singing a song to a baby makes you feel miserable, you already are miserable and it's you who should not get out in the public but probably stay confined in the boundaries of your own home.
Keeping a distressed child calm on a bus isn't the same as someone being deliberately disrespectful by screaming and shouting. Nor is 'don't get on the bus' an option since many parents have to take their children on public transport if they lack a car or need to go to a specific place.
The selfishness is you expecting parents to not try and soothe their infant because the sound of their singing (whisper-quiet singing most likely if it's meant to soothe an upset baby) somehow upsets you so deeply. Would you prefer they do nothing and let the upset child began screaming and crying, something which will be much louder and ear-splitting?
No, it doesn't, but I'd go so far as to say the vast majority of the world understands that for kids with autism it's hard enough to get your head around what's going on at the best of times, never mind when you're 15 months old and barely know what's going on in the world period. Honestly, I can't believe anyone's comming out with this crap understanding we're talking about not only a toddler - which is already a difficult enough age in "normal" kids, but we're talking about someone with a severe problem which essentially skews their understanding of the world. I encounter kids on the spectrum on an almost daily basis, I have done almost every day of my working life, it's not easy to deal with that because for some of those kids the notion of "normal behavior" simply doesn't exist, they understand that certain things they can't do, but for the most part they're placated by certain things & by the sound of it this child's "trigger" is Peppa Pig. (for want of a better way of putting it!)
Personally I think there may be more to it than the papers are letting on (long enough in the tooth to understand the Daily Fail will almost certainly leave something out for their benefit) but ultimately if you take it at face value it's real bad. Can't help but get the feeling this is a typical Daily Fail "all muslims are bad" piece though, not like that should surprise anyone with two braincells!
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For some weird reason, people make a big deal over pigs and I don't know why. Definitely not racist. When people hate me they flat out hate me, no slyly snorting across the room.
As for noise on public stuff... I feel like people are very antisocial (among other things) and think too much about everyone hanging on every word they say, when in reality the other passenger don't care and will forget whatever was not relevant to their conversation when they get off the bus. Like when you trip and feel silly because people saw you, forgetting that when you see people trip you forget about it mere moments later and their "humility" is in fact not burned into your brain.