"In order to maintain a tolerant society, the society must be intolerant of intolerance." Paradox of tolerance
"If you want to control people, if you want to feed them a pack of lies and dominate them, keep them ignorant. For me, literacy means freedom." - LaVar Burton.
That's the point, though. It doesn't 'make' me feel things like that. I can tell the difference between make-believe and reality. I don't need my video game characters to all look like Kevin James to feel 'fulfilled' or to have someone to 'identify' with.
This man's voice is speaking up to say, "Why do you assume that women (or men), in general, are incapable of parsing pop culture into 'real' and 'make believe'?"
No one with the tiniest bit of sense expects either of these things. We shit on people who do speak on these issues from a female perspective because they are voicing concerns that stereotype women as weak-willed or lacking the intelligence to realize the difference between fiction and reality.
We're all far better off choosing what we expose our children to, teaching them the difference between reality and fiction, and teaching them that there are shitbirds everywhere, and you can't let them run your life.
Lastly, most media is aspirational. Nobody would watch the NBA if I was a starter- why do we expect people to consume media that primarily shows 'real' people doing 'real' things? Even when people are 'real' (say, a Kevin Smith movie) we give them dialogue that would never occur in real life. Is Kevin Smith to be stopped because he makes people that don't talk in witty monologues feel insecure?
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Yes and no.
This is where I think the system sort of splits and there tends to be more pressure on women than men, though I do think it's sort of evening out now (men are getting pressured more and more) but it's like, if you take a game like gears of war in a vacuum, and say like, okay so this is a super buff manly supersoldier who has rippling biceps and so on and like, on it's own, no, obviously it's not trying to say that all dudes should look like that.
But what if every single man you ever see in every movie, advert, TV show, music video, book, videogame, etc etc EVER were all like gears of war guy. You could be forgivern for thinking "yeah so this is like, what men look like. I don't look like that, I must be a rubbish man"
There's a lot of the like, big rippling muscles buff dudes around, but there are also a lot of other kinds of guys, people like The Doctor from Doctor Who is a good example, where there are different kinds of guys. With women, there are... less options. There are some of course and you can always build a list of examples but it tends to be harder to find examples of women who are shown as capable and competant and like "good" and "desireable" etc who don't fit the stereotype etc. Also, guys generally don't get the same focus on apperance that women do. For example, there was that story the other day about a bunch of astronaughts from russia, I believe, and like, it was like the first russian woman on the ISS or something, and a bunch of dudes and they were asking questions of all of the astronaughts, but the ones to the woman were about things like her makeup and her hair etc and how she was going to do that on the ISS, and she was like "why don't you ask these questions about the guy's hair?" etc. Guys have other pressures of course, but when it comes to appearance etc there are more focuses on women than men really.
r.i.p. alleria. 1997-2017. blizzard ruined alleria forever. blizz assassinated alleria's character and appearance.
i will never forgive you for this blizzard.
How does someone that doesn't care act in caring ways?
Why is 'changing stuff' a valid argument anyway?. Some -most- changes are pointless. If you demonstrate change is needed, go for it, in the meanwhile, change is not needed. And if people want a different industry, they need to build it themselves, not change the current structures. If you like indie devs that explore gender in games or w/e, go support them :]. If that product is better, it'll be bought. Demanding the current industry to change is not constructive criticism in the slightest, though.
I think this thread has gone on long enough.
And please don't frame threads in such a biased way in the future. If you feel like this is tied to GamerGate, bring it up in the appropriate thread.