Fair enough. I don't want to dive into some weird No True Feminist argument. Kasparian's a reasonable person and a good voice in general. I do want to point out that she's branded as a horrible regressive by popular feminist rage bloggers like PZ Myers though (link). I hope Kasparian's more representative of mainline feminism than Myers.
If a female scientist had been wearing that shirt and she was gay, what do you think the media's response would have been?
Feminists would have spun the whole situation into something positive because they wouldn't want to belittle their role model.
Now to be fair to you, you want to make the argument that objectifying women offends women, but where do you draw the line? Will all beautiful scantily-clad women need to be banned from (certain) video games because they offend the minority of female gamers who play them?
The point is, people are being offended by something harmless or something they don't need to participate in.
This is what we call professional victim-hood. It will reach a point where we will simply have to not care about what others think.
If Matt Taylor had gone in front of that camera with a half naked female super model on each shoulder then you'd have a point.
I feel bad for the guy. Likely the last thing on his mind was if his shirt was offensive or not, since (from the story I read) it was given to him by a woman.
I actually view the feminist movement a lot like PETA. Their core belief is something I think just about everyone can agree with, but then you have a lot of people with fringe beliefs hopping on board trying to get press. Eventually these sort of things will get laughed off, or ignored on a busy news day. Unfortunately we're still in a time period with the feminism issue where nobody (or not enough people) have the courage to blow off the fringe, and the only ones that do are the fringe on the other end of the spectrum, so it just turns into clickbait and the like for the media, which allows them to profit from it, which means we'll get more of these fringe stories.
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