Somehow i find it rather bleh, i love the process of discovery, even if it reaches impasses, and then managing to break through differences, feels rather rewarding.
Dating sites feel, odd to me, not in the a judgemental type of "hurr its for losers" kind of shit, but its... odd, bit like going to the grocery and buying something you find interesting, if it makes sense?
And ye, there are a lot of people on those sites, no one is anyones first choice and everyone is pingponging until they find a decent enough match, just like RL, but a bit "faster", so not much use in overthinking if one is a first choice or not.