Heres my experience doing a pug group on my alt, i'm not trying to pretend like i'm a elitist but this raid leader is pretty bad.
i joined this fresh normal brf pug run as a 668 paladin tank, i know this instance inside out for every position. i said hi and hopped on vent just listening. the raid leader was a warrior tank, not gonna call out his name.
i noticed some of the players are in the same guild as the RL, so i checked their gear, some people still have blues, no enchant no gem no achievement. clearly new players but i didn't really mind, i was just casually doing some content on my alt, honestly i don't care about loot or boss kills, i just wanted to have a good time.
if you dont know how oregorer works u can skip to TLDR...
we were doing oregorer as the first boss so i whispered the RL warrior tank to make sure he knows to switch taunt after every acid torrent, he replied ok and said he wants to tank the boss first. then we started pulling,
in the first pull he went in first and i taunted right after the first acid torrent as i should, but then i took 3 acid torrent in a row and we wiped, the warrior tank/RL was there just hitting the boss doing nothing, not really saying anything on vent either
then he typed in raid chat" u have to taunt", i was shocked and said i did and i tanked the boss since then until we wiped. then he said" oh i didnt see the boss turning", i was completely mind fucked, not knowing someone can have a reason as dumb as this. he assumed i didnt taunt because the boss didnt move. how does that makes sense?
im trying to be nice and just didnt say anything so we pulled again, and this guy went in, this time he tanked the boss at exact opposite dirrection of the ranged group and the first acid torrent hit the shaman healer and one shot him. the shaman didnt even know what hit him and appologized for no reason. then some ranged died as well, wiped soon after.
as a nice person i didnt want to blame the RL in raid chat so i whispered the tank/RL asking again if he knows fight and told him u have to tank the boss make it facing the ranged group. also i had to completely stop dps when im not tanking because he cant hold aggro whatsoever.
Then he just denied it saying he did tank it the right way and he knows fight, i was like are you serious u totally just killed the healer! but i didnt say it, i just whispered check shaman's death log.
then this RL guy didnt reply and just speaks in vent said "we wiped because of the other tank so i'm gonna replace him". and kicked me a second after. made it seem like hes all cool and i was fucking up the whole time. i was shocked for a moment and whispered to him "serious?", then he replies"get off your cross" i dont even know what that means, he thought i was being aggresive for pointing out his mistakes in whisper? and he just ignores me after.
he kicked me to cover his own mistakes and there is nothing i can do about it. the people in the raid are all new players and cant see him failing so hard. i pretty much didnt say anything in raid chat the whole time. i didnt make a single mistake and also helped interrupting the boss many times.
im not really mad about it, im sure alot of people gets kicked from a pug for the stupidiest reasons. just wanted to share a short story.
if you have different opinions share it or have your own story you can share it too.
i think its ok to be a noob and im fine with teaching/carrying you, but being a noob and also doing such thing in a pug is just really toxic.
TL
R, a premade raid leader kicked me off the group to cover his own mistake
PS : just for background my main is already 10/10m i know exactly what im doing.but the RL doesnt know that. i actually have screen shot of whispers and log of the wipes if needed
if you want to see my main or w/e just pm me, i dont want to share the info here.