What is your biggest Turn off & Turn on in a partner?

[Suikoden]

Biggest turn on: Someone who can be themself around me and vice versa. People having nice eyes.
Biggest turn off: People who are overly blunt. Morons who always want to be right all the time.

[Deleted]

Do you look for the same traits in people you wouldn't hook up with, or see as a partner. Basically, your normal friends.

Oh, nope. Friends it doesn't matter what they look like.

[Reg]

Biggest turn on: Someone who can be themself around me and vice versa.
Biggest turn off: People who are overly blunt. Being blunt is one thing but when you're pissing people off left and right that's when I have a problem.

It's weird how different things attract different people. Your turn off is something I like in a woman. I dislike when people pussyfoot around, just use your words and tell me straight up.

[Suikoden]

It's weird how different things attract different people. Your turn off is something I like in a woman. I dislike when people pussyfoot around, just use your words and tell me straight up.

I don't like pussyfooting either, I just can't stand ignorant people who are blunt to an extreme.

[Vea Lea]

I had a lot of fun learning about everyone's ideal physical traits in a partner last night. So now I'm interested to know what makes you guys/gals/apache helicopters tick whether you be homo/hetero/pan/[sexual preference]. When you're first interacting with a potential partner. Moreover, do these traits carry over to your platonic relationships?

1. What is a major turn off for you?
2. What is a major turn on for you?

*These can be physical or emotional, monetary or material etc.

And try and be a little more specific than "great sense of humor"
If they have a great sense of humor be more specific, is it witty/sarcastic/dark/dry etc.


Again just curious for science. And threads like these are fun.

turn off:
very dark skin
fat
ugly face
not taller than 170 cm
underweight
is dependant on others

major turn on:
lighter skin color where white people are high
tall
muscular fit
nice beard
can take care of me

[djcoin]

They need to understand that winning isn't about facerolling. It's about coordination and CC. Blowing all your cooldowns is not the true way to win. My partner needs to be prepared to lose a thousand times practicing his game before he starts winning. Not many partners out there like that anymore.

[reef]

Turn-Offs: smoker, drinker, overweight, unintelligent, unmotivated, unattractive face

Turn-Ons: non-smoker, non-drinker, not overweight, intelligent, ambitious, attractive face, redhead

[Orlong]

So really, you just want a personal chef.

And someone to watch TV and movies with

[zenkai]

Major turnoffs:

Tattoos
Piercings
Jewelry
Vanity
Laziness
Dirt
Dust
Cheapskate
Sex
Snuggles
Clingy
Unintelligent

Turn ons:

Good cook

So you're dream man is Gordon Ramsey?

[Marinai]

Turn on: Heartbeat
Turn off: No Heartbeat

But seriously, any girl can be attractive if they are just.. "normal", not being a bitch, not being a pain in the ass.. Now of course, a nice ass and decent tits certainly are an added bonus, but if not.. It can also be fine.
A clear turn off for me can be when she is not interested in being cuddly or something.. I need me a good ol' huggin' every once in a while, it can be the start of a good lovemakin'

[Vermicious]

turn off:
very dark skin
fat
ugly face
not taller than 170 cm
underweight
is dependant on others

major turn on:
lighter skin color where white people are high
tall
muscular fit
nice beard
can take care of me

So in other words... no one in your country?

[Deleted]

Biggest turnon: willing to experiment in bed to extreme manners (as long as it doesn't involve scat or pain).

Biggest turnoff: prudishness.

[Beery Swine]

It's difficult to nail down. What do you mean by "turn on", do you just mean sexual turn on or emotional, what? I'll just say I prefer conversations to have an effortless flow to them. If we can't communicate properly and laugh at each other's jokes, no point in continuing. Turn off would be the opposite.

[Gamdwelf]

On: when a grill is like 5' sometimes shorter.
Off: lack of general empathy.