This is the black and white you were looking for. Either the predictions of QM are correct or they aren't. And so far as we can tell, they are. Which means you can't assign an up or down to an electron, because doing so goes against every experiment ever performed on Bell's inequalities.
Nothing about truth says it has to be simple or that you have to like it. Nowhere in the laws of the universe is it written that you have to be comfortable with it. No offense, but your answer here is basically a cop out.