We got around that with the following: Group 1 consists of 2 tanks, 2 rogues, 1 paladin. If winds come out, people basically say, "Pass, pass, pass" until it gets back to group 1. They know what they are doing with the orb. If you don't know what to do and are passed the orb throw it to any member of group 1.

At that point, we have been able to even pug normals with that explanation. It seems, hot potato works better then any other explanation.