TL;DR:
This particular situation relates to a potential date/romance thing.
- I have no real experience with meeting people out of my social circle (especially at their work)
- Would like advice on how to approach the situation
- Would also like to hear stories about your experience (if any) with this situation.
Hey, so I post on Gen- OT a lot and it's been a great source of insight on some current events going on in my life.
I go to the gym regularly and always say hello to one of the receptionists, she is very pretty and I tell my trainer and a few people at work about her every now and then. I don't bring her up often but I have mentioned that I think she is pretty and despite knowing nothing about her, she does seem to carry herself well and looks like she could be a lot of fun to get to know.
Outside of my trainer I have no real connection with this girl, and being a customer service job her smiling and being friendly is likely due to her workplace. That being said one of the girls at my work has mentioned that I should leave my number with her since I talk about her every now and then and I'm not usually like this with other people.
I was just curious if any of you had any experience with getting to know someone outside of your friend circle and if so how did you go about introducing yourself? Thanks in advance.
My biggest fear is obviously rejection. I'm not trying to score with this girl or date her immediately but I would like to get to know her better and see if the potential for a relationship is there.
My next biggest fear is the fact that she works at the gym that I visit every day. If I were to get rejected from her I don't want every visit to be super awkward when I check in/out. But that's just me being nervous I think.