Your wife made a mistake but is otherwise a good person. daughter and mother need each other. Don't worry about the bad image, she knows where her mother is. Seeing what prisons are like could deter her from criminal temptations too.
Your wife made a mistake but is otherwise a good person. daughter and mother need each other. Don't worry about the bad image, she knows where her mother is. Seeing what prisons are like could deter her from criminal temptations too.
Thanks for answering. Main problem I have is she will see her mom in a jail jumpsuit and other inmates and even guards that could be intimidating . Is that ok for a 14 year old to see?
My wife said bring her if she wants to come. My daughter said she would like to visit I just wonder if it is a good idea due to the factors I mentioned
but that's advice on this site, so the OP shouldn't listen to you. But if the OP won't listen to you, he'll listen to advice on this site. Than he'll listen to your advice and not listen to advice on this site but your advice is on this site so the OP won't listen to you and than he'll listen to advice and than he'll listen to you and than...
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seems like an experience that could build character, depending on how you (as a parent) handle it
all that aside, nobody here knows you or your family (or the kind of area you live in), so I'd recommend getting the pros and cons from a parenting counselor directly, and making your own decision.
as many others say, she is old enough to decide for herself.
Just support her decision.
Prisoners should not have any sort of visitors or contact with the outside world. Once they enter, they see no family or friends or ever get see the sky again until their time is served. The ONLY exception to this is being taken under armed guard to a medical facility, or to the funeral of a direct relative (spouse, parent, child). They forfeit the right to any sort civil liberties the moment thy broke the law.
Seeing her mother in jail might show your daughter just how lousy jail is. I say take her.
yeah I think I'd let my child visit its mother
I don't know about you, but when I went on a trip to the jail for my Criminal Justice class, no matter where you went, it was gross. Nothing looked like it was really cleaned, and even then, they would still see their mom having no freedoms basically, something that might not hit someone until they see it.
Then you lucked out? Why does everyone assume just because "I saw a jail! None of them are bad!"?
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sometimes, Just occasionally, Reality needs to get a grip and start treating people the way they deserve. I have seen good, honest people get the shitty end of the stick most of their lives, and I have been the victim of serial thieves who got away with it because of lack of police interest.
if you break the rules set down by society then you have no place being in, or communicating with that society.
She should serve her sentence, and your daughter should see it and understand why. With that said, you should help to make her stay easier. Her punishment is being locked up for six months, her punishment is not meant to be isolation from her family: if it were, there wouldn't be visitation privileges at all.
The goal of any prison in a developed country is meant to be rehabilitation - that means helping people to live their lives within the law, when they exit prison. The court has punished her, your job and your daughter's job is to help rehabilitate her.