is physical disability dealbreaker in relationship?

[Lava Bucket]

I wouldn't say its a deal breaker but I don't think I could deal with the stress of taking care of someone with a very serious disability like quadriplegics and so forth. Really shitty on my part but I know myself enough that I could never devote my life to such a task. I admire people that stick with disabled partners though. That's true love

I don't think anyone would like to deal with that kind of stress. Probably the best thing to do under those circumstances is to get help from medical professionals. Even having a nurse come in a few hours a day could take a lot of strain out of relationship. Also, if you're the primary caretaker of someone, I think it pushes the relationship more in a parent/child direction rather than two people who are equals.

[namecraft]

i wonder if people feel if physical disability is a dealbreaker in relationships? if someone was in wheel chair i dont think i could be in relationship with them its very restricting

I think you never had a crush before if you say this
lots of people are only lusty

[unbound]

Not at all. I have a great uncle who got caught in a farming accident and became a paraplegic. At the time he was engaged to a very hot woman. She could have easily moved on to someone more worthy, but she stayed with him, got married, had a few kids together and stuck with him until he died in his 70s.

Relationships always have challenges. If you are going to discard a possible relationship with someone who otherwise fits you quite well because of a wheelchair, you are the one with the problem, not them.

[Bosen]

If I fell in love with someone, it wouldn't matter to me. I could see it being a problem if we couldn't have sex. That would suck,but if I truly loved them,I see it as something that could be overcome. That would be a very special and unlikely circumstance, but you never know who you'll meet or when you'll fall in love.

[artemishunter1]

Not at all. I have a great uncle who got caught in a farming accident and became a paraplegic. At the time he was engaged to a very hot woman. She could have easily moved on to someone more worthy, but she stayed with him, got married, had a few kids together and stuck with him until he died in his 70s.

Relationships always have challenges. If you are going to discard a possible relationship with someone who otherwise fits you quite well because of a wheelchair, you are the one with the problem, not them.

Someone at the prime of their life, should not waste their life taking care of someone. Relation is give and take. a disable young person would mostly take, compared to if the disability happened in the middle age where the relationship has already become strong.

[Deleted]

I'll tick depends what it is, but honestly all of the ones I can think of right now are total dealbreakers. I don't want to be someone's caretaker, too much stress and pressure.

[Mormolyce]

It entirely depends on the disability in question and how strongly I feel about this person.

[Kurioxan]

Depends on what it is, a wheelchair yeah i do think it would be. Id prob take care of the person for as long as I could, but yeah...

[Megitsune]

If I'm just dating then it depends on what it is. Anything severe would most likely be a dealbreaker, yeah.

If I was already with someone and they got disabled, of course I wouldn't leave them over that.

[Vea Lea]

I think you never had a crush before if you say this
lots of people are only lusty

i have lol

[Bushtuckrman]

I wouldn't date any woman that had a physical or mental disability. A chick I went to get with once seemed a bit slow, she said she had a bit of a learning disability so I left it at that. My choice, disabilities are a turn off and a deal breaker for me.

That said if my wife had an accident and became disabled I would be with her until the end and love her every day as I do now.

[Doctor Amadeus]

Yes, because, I don't want to be responsible for anybody should things get serious that I am not 100% sure I want to take on that task.

[Cosmic Janitor]

I wouldn't date any woman that had a physical or mental disability. A chick I went to get with once seemed a bit slow, she said she had a bit of a learning disability so I left it at that. My choice, disabilities are a turn off and a deal breaker for me.

That said if my wife had an accident and became disabled I would be with her until the end and love her every day as I do now.

Mental disability is a total deal breaker, legally and emotionally.