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    It depends on the situation and how the other party handled it. If someone fucks up and says sorry immediately I 'm probably going to forgive them. However, there are some things that are unforgivable and you will be on my shit list for life.

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    It's not always easy, but I try to, actively. It makes me free when it works, free from unuseful grudge. That's what I realized, grudge enslaves you to bad and negative emotions/feelings, and it makes you give too much attention and energy to people or things you shouldn't spend onto.

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    Entirely depends on the severity of what they did. Generally speaking though I am very forgiving and a believer in second chances and even third.

    Never forget though but I will forgive.

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    Even if my life depends on it I will never forgive.
    You cared enough to post.

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    I still hold grudges against asshats back in middle school and I'm 22. I don't have a very forgiving brain unfortunately...

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    I'm not one to hold grudges or burn my bridges.. the rest of my family are full of rage and hate and bewilders me to their thinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Strear View Post
    It's not always easy, but I try to, actively. It makes me free when it works, free from unuseful grudge. That's what I realized, grudge enslaves you to bad and negative emotions/feelings, and it makes you give too much attention and energy to people or things you shouldn't spend onto.
    Yeah, it takes a lot of energy to hold a grudge, it's like you're giving yourself PTSD. Forgive and forget is best for you if you can.
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