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    Quote Originally Posted by Skayth View Post
    Correct. I trust noone. Least of all my intimate partner.
    what a sad existence

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kurgath View Post
    Anyway, the Revenge porn videos are always the same, that has to be staged, it's always the same 3 guys with HD cams. Or maybe we're not talking about the same thing?
    Many are staged, but not in the way you're assuming. Apparently there aren't enough jilted lovers out there, so this guy had to hack e-mail accounts to steal pictures. The pictures aren't staged, but the revenge sometimes is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by adam86shadow View Post
    what a sad existence
    No, its not. Rather, my life is actually completely fine, and would be considered "happy." My trust in no one helps with the fact people are going to let me down, no matter what, either it being at work, or at home. Trust is a figment of the imagination, that gets exploited by people that know how to. Why would I trust my Intimate partner?we have been together for, what... 6 months at this point? Trust will only come when its been at least 5 years, and even that is pushing it, with the divorce rate being.... a flip of the coin. Be intelligent and logical, its gets you through life quite fine, without the illogical figment of trust.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skayth View Post
    No, its not. Rather, my life is actually completely fine, and would be considered "happy." My trust in no one helps with the fact people are going to let me down, no matter what, either it being at work, or at home. Trust is a figment of the imagination, that gets exploited by people that know how to. Why would I trust my Intimate partner?we have been together for, what... 6 months at this point? Trust will only come when its been at least 5 years, and even that is pushing it, with the divorce rate being.... a flip of the coin. Be intelligent and logical, its gets you through life quite fine, without the illogical figment of trust.
    "Considered happy?" It sounds like you're not sure of yourself.

    If you completely rely on the lesser chance to dictate your life, your life will become barren and uneventful. I personally couldn't do that, but I understand that some people are genuinely terrified of being hurt or losing something that they may have invested time and effort into. However, without the opportunity of risk, choice ceases to exist. In the end, you become a product of your fears, and I know that I couldn't live in a world created by self-made walls like that... I guess each person has their own way of living life though.

    I would feel sorry for you, but it's very likely that you'd prefer to live in such confinement. So, I guess, all I can say is that it's unfortunate to hear that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Skayth View Post
    No, its not. Rather, my life is actually completely fine, and would be considered "happy." My trust in no one helps with the fact people are going to let me down, no matter what, either it being at work, or at home. Trust is a figment of the imagination, that gets exploited by people that know how to. Why would I trust my Intimate partner?we have been together for, what... 6 months at this point? Trust will only come when its been at least 5 years, and even that is pushing it, with the divorce rate being.... a flip of the coin. Be intelligent and logical, its gets you through life quite fine, without the illogical figment of trust.
    Thanks for this big ol cup of depressing shit this morning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragonheart Maiden View Post
    "Considered happy?" It sounds like you're not sure of yourself.

    If you completely rely on the lesser chance to dictate your life, your life will become barren and uneventful. I personally couldn't do that, but I understand that some people are genuinely terrified of being hurt or losing something that they may have invested time and effort into. However, without the opportunity of risk, choice ceases to exist. In the end, you become a product of your fears, and I know that I couldn't live in a world created by self-made walls like that... I guess each person has their own way of living life though.

    I would feel sorry for you, but it's very likely that you'd prefer to live in such confinement. So, I guess, all I can say is that it's unfortunate to hear that.
    Hurt? No. I am very much unempathetic towards anyone. Am "I" terrified of being hurt? Nope. Emotionally, I cannot be hurt with the distance I have with everyone, even though people believe they may be close to me... Even my immediate family thinks they are close, but if they all dropped dead, I wouldnt well up a tear. Rather, it comes down to "is this taking up my time?" I do not think you understand me. I do not live in a world that is boxed in on walls, with my fears as you put it, rather I am someone that sees beyond the boxes that most people put themselves in. I see the boxes they, themselves, put themself in. My trust "issues" has nothing to do with fear of loss or being hurt. While I can go on a tangent about trust, in the end, it boils down to "What do I get out of it?" And the answer is nothing, because, in the end, the fragile thing, people called trust, is broken constantly. Think about it. If someone breaks your trust, even once, then why bother ever trusting them again? Are you gullible?

    I do not live in any sort of confinement, rather, I am more free than most people, though most people do not see it as such.

    Quote Originally Posted by unfilteredJW View Post
    Thanks for this big ol cup of depressing shit this morning.
    Your very welcome

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    Revenge porn to me is taking the most viscous part of a gay porn and sending it to someone anti gay after they've made some rage out how he hates queers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by adam86shadow View Post
    Surely only somebody with the maturity of a 10 y/o and serious issues would even consider this
    The millions upon millions of "nudez" on the internet would say otherwise.

    I mean my friends just randomly send me the nudes they get from chicks... I don't ask for them or even want them, but they send them to me...

    There are dozens of revenge porn sites... Image boards with no rules like 4chan have twenty different "post the pictures you promised never to share" threads a day... Subreddits devoted to it, etc... It isn't some rare occurrence that only immature people do.

    When you send someone nudes it is a gamble of how vindictive they are when you inevitably end the relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skayth View Post
    Hurt? No. I am very much unempathetic towards anyone. Am "I" terrified of being hurt? Nope. Emotionally, I cannot be hurt with the distance I have with everyone, even though people believe they may be close to me... Even my immediate family thinks they are close, but if they all dropped dead, I wouldnt well up a tear. Rather, it comes down to "is this taking up my time?" I do not think you understand me. I do not live in a world that is boxed in on walls, with my fears as you put it, rather I am someone that sees beyond the boxes that most people put themselves in. I see the boxes they, themselves, put themself in. My trust "issues" has nothing to do with fear of loss or being hurt. While I can go on a tangent about trust, in the end, it boils down to "What do I get out of it?" And the answer is nothing, because, in the end, the fragile thing, people called trust, is broken constantly. Think about it. If someone breaks your trust, even once, then why bother ever trusting them again? Are you gullible?

    I do not live in any sort of confinement, rather, I am more free than most people, though most people do not see it as such.
    So, in otherwords, you're absolutely terrified of risk. You allow it to not only dictate your decisions, but also how you run your life.

    Blaming your insecurity on the blatant fear of possibly being conned out of something that you work for is just that, a fear of taking a risk because your trust was betrayed a single time before. Because of this insecurity you scour things for facts to support your position of not having to take risks. It's easier when you have something else to blame, don't you?

    You call it fragile and gullible, but in reality it's the opposite. I see people that choose to take risks and rise up for a failure and move on as a strong and determined person, they're attractive and take initiative because they aren't controlled by their fears. If you have to weigh the value of other people hurting you or not, then you're already in a sad state of mind, locked away by your overarching fear that someone is going to hurt you by betraying you once again. Desperately, you pray to a logic that everyone else is gullible and foolish for supposedly putting themselves in harms way, when in reality, they're growing as people and learning to achieve what they want without the fear of being hurt, because life is about overcoming what you fear and what hurts you. It isn't about avoiding your problems and letting them control your life and decisions.
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    Except the vast majority of revenge porn (just like any so called amateur porn) is fake which makes it ok. The revenge porn you are talking about in OP is rare and only for people who need the "strongest" stuff to get off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by adam86shadow View Post
    what a sad existence
    I trust a select few of people, but I'm well aware that it's naive of me to do so and that at least some 1 of them will fuck me over at some point in my life...I just try to ignore that thought and live on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragonheart Maiden View Post
    I'm already an amateur adult model, so if pictures are posted online without my consent, the only problem I have is gaining credit that they're me in the pictures/videos.

    So, for me, it's more of a headache than an insult.
    If only it was as straightforward as that. The fact is they post it up along with your home adress, work adress, work number, home phone number, mobile, and soon enough you're getting bombarded with obscene phonecalls and threats of rape and so forth.

    I think ultimately thats where the concern is, if someone wants to bleat "Oh noes, out there somewhere are pictures of my hawt bawdy and someone random I'll never meet might be oggling them" the response could justifiably be along the lines of "Well boo hoo you're a fool for trusting X with them" or w/e. But it goes much more sinister than that
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    oh look adam's at it again

    anyway I've always thought it's incredibly stupid to send nude pictures of yourself to anyone, relationships don't last forever, trust and love become mistrust and hatred.

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    Quote Originally Posted by I Push Buttons View Post
    The millions upon millions of "nudez" on the internet would say otherwise.

    I mean my friends just randomly send me the nudes they get from chicks... I don't ask for them or even want them, but they send them to me...

    There are dozens of revenge porn sites... Image boards with no rules like 4chan have twenty different "post the pictures you promised never to share" threads a day... Subreddits devoted to it, etc... It isn't some rare occurrence that only immature people do.

    When you send someone nudes it is a gamble of how vindictive they are when you inevitably end the relationship.
    That doesn't mean the millions haven't got the maturity of a 10 y/o. Your friends sound like jerks

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarac View Post
    Except the vast majority of revenge porn (just like any so called amateur porn) is fake which makes it ok. The revenge porn you are talking about in OP is rare and only for people who need the "strongest" stuff to get off.

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    I trust a select few of people, but I'm well aware that it's naive of me to do so and that at least some 1 of them will fuck me over at some point in my life...I just try to ignore that thought and live on.
    Source it's all fake?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AeneasBK View Post
    If only it was as straightforward as that. The fact is they post it up along with your home adress, work adress, work number, home phone number, mobile, and soon enough you're getting bombarded with obscene phonecalls and threats of rape and so forth.

    I think ultimately thats where the concern is, if someone wants to bleat "Oh noes, out there somewhere are pictures of my hawt bawdy and someone random I'll never meet might be oggling them" the response could justifiably be along the lines of "Well boo hoo you're a fool for trusting X with them" or w/e. But it goes much more sinister than that
    Exactly it goes beyond people just wanking over them

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    I feel like a lot of pics on those type of sites are just setups and not actual revenge
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    It may be illegal, but I doubt it's going to stop an angry ex from uploading your private pictures/videos online. Just look at revenge porn site myex. That happens in a moment of 'rage'.
    Last edited by mmoce81c18500a; 2015-09-17 at 10:12 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HomeHoney View Post
    until society learns to see sex as normal instead of taboo, sex will always be used as a threat

    IE: if there was no social stigma attached to sex, there would be no way to socially threaten ppl with sex
    stop being smart

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    How else are you gonna get some REAL amateur footage?

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