Do girls like this?

[Super Kami Dende]

Also I assure you men if you're having issues getting it up, the woman is asking friends and family how to deal

Yeah I had a close female friend ask me if her Boyfriend didn't find her attractive since sometimes (rarely from what she said) he couldn't get hard and she thought he might have not wanted her.

Apparently she didn't realise that a guy being Stressed out from Work, or Tired, or Sore can easily affect performance (both ways).

[hellosaltygoodness]

Girls chat about that stuff!

Me and my two best friends know everything about each others sex lives. Everything.

[haxartus]

Yeah guy sex conversations tend to be very shallow - "Yeah, I banged that" or "She couldn't let me sleep last night".
Noting seriously specific.

[Felicia]

After 20 min I get bored and therefore dry up, making it painful

This for me, too. You need to keep it interesting, and change it up if you want to go longer :P And have her like it. Because it sounds like she was faking to get you to stop.

Also tears aren't fun. They kinda hurt like hell.

[Krille]

1. switch positions, 2. don't have sex for an hour, give up mate. 3. You will know if she orgasmed, it's impossible to miss. 3b it all might be connected to your penis, it might not be sensitive enough. But we don't know all the details here, but if you just had missionary sex for 1 hour i understand she wanted to stop. Real life is as close to a porno as real life is to world of warcraft. Separate the two.

[Rooskie1993]

I must clarify, I said she wanted to stop but I really did because It was about an hour and I was fucking really tired from work already and seemed to be putting in most of the work near the end, and she was really wet is why i'm thinking i made her orgasm. She didnt want to keep going after either, first time it's happened but i'm not too worried since it was just a random hook up.

[Wyrt]

Yeah guy sex conversations tend to be very shallow - "Yeah, I banged that" or "She couldn't let me sleep last night".
Noting seriously specific.

Of course, because they tend to get super pissed if you go into specifics and your friend makes a remark about something.

Because of course your friend would make a remark about something.

she was really wet is why i'm thinking i made her orgasm

Some women are just wetter than others. If you made her orgasm you would know, you wouldn't have to guess at it.

[Kourvith]

On average I find the sweet spot to be 30-40 min. Lasted 1h30 one time. But that was someone I was in couple for 3 years, so we kinda knew our limits. (and it was paused with other "carings", indeed).

For the question, I have a friend who says she's bored when it's longer than 20 min, and another who says she likes when it goes longer. Maybe it also depends on the guy experience, too. Constant, mechanical ramming doesn't work for too long in general.

[Rooskie1993]

Yeah I had a close female friend ask me if her Boyfriend didn't find her attractive since sometimes (rarely from what she said) he couldn't get hard and she thought he might have not wanted her.

Apparently she didn't realise that a guy being Stressed out from Work, or Tired, or Sore can easily affect performance (both ways).

Yeah I had just finished work after moving for a few days and was probably stressed, seeing as this was the first time it's happened.

[Independent voter]

When I think about males establishing alpha dominance, in my mind I always picture long, drawn-out lightsaber battles. But with dicks.

It would be a strange fight cause no way guys would touch a dick with their dick.

[nocturnus]

Yeah guy sex conversations tend to be very shallow - "Yeah, I banged that" or "She couldn't let me sleep last night".
Noting seriously specific.

The complete opposite, in my experience. My friends and I have always been very specific about our experiences with shallow relationships. E.G. women we only have sex with.

[minteK917]

As others have said 1 hour is too much, i believe this is some dumb idea that is pushed by porn. Which would also explain your problem for finishing, we call it the death grip problem. You are so used to having to pull your penis hard to orgasm, penetrating a women is about friction, by the time a death grip penis gets enough of the friction, women is already sore and bored.

Jerk it less fiercely and dont take most porn for actual sex.

[Krille]

The complete opposite, in my experience. My friends and I have always been very specific about our experiences with shallow relationships. E.G. women we only have sex with.

Same, since we'll never see the girl again i delve into details.. It's great fun to see their jealous faces.

[Narveid]

When I think about males establishing alpha dominance, in my mind I always picture long, drawn-out lightsaber battles. But with dicks.

Yeah, the lighsaber comes out of your dick instead of a handle. And then its a lot of swinging around, without actually touching each other.... In other words, you just have two guys infront of each other doing helicopter dick

[Laerrus]

Holy siht 1 hour... I wouldn't last more than 20 mins.

Fapping ALOT and with more force than a vagina can exert, deadens the nerves and builds endurance.

The first time my Wife and I had sex, I lasted over 90 mins... fun for her, she came 3 times and I was happy for her, but it got very frustrating for me.

[Wyrt]

It would be a strange fight cause no way guys would touch a dick with their dick.

They'd also have to be hard in order to really do much other than flop around uselessly.

As others have said 1 hour is too much, i believe this is some dumb idea that is pushed by porn. Which would also explain your problem for finishing, we call it the death grip problem. You are so used to having to pull your penis hard to orgasm, penetrating a women is about friction, by the time a death grip penis gets enough of the friction, women is already sore and bored.

Jerk it less fiercely and dont take most porn for actual sex.

Mmhmm, try using friction to masturbate instead of choking the life out of it.

[minteK917]

Yeah, the lighsaber comes out of your dick instead of a handle. And then its a lot of swinging around, without actually touching each other.... In other words, you just have two guys infront of each other doing helicopter dick

I guess its no worse then my fantasy about women pillow fights jumping up and down with their breasts bouncing. Or about all women stretching their ass wearing yoga pants....... oh wait its called a gym, heaven does exist.

[Krille]

Fapping ALOT and with more force than a vagina can exert, deadens the nerves and builds endurance.

The first time my Wife and I had sex, I lasted over 90 mins... fun for her, she came 3 times and I was happy for her, but it got very frustrating for me.

Pffft 3 times mate, come on, alpha males can make her cum 3 times in succession.

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I guess its no worse then my fantasy about women pillow fights jumping up and down with their breasts bouncing. Or about all women stretching their ass wearing yoga pants....... oh wait its called a gym, heaven does exist.

Had this convo with my gf the other day. The girls at the gym wear TIGHT yogapants and stretch in front of you. She just responds "you're so easily teased". I mean come on, it's like we would oil in our upper bodies and flex in front of girls.

[Natureseer]

i normally go for about a minute. maybe 2 if i think of winter

i almost spit out my drink

[nocturnus]

Fapping ALOT and with more force than a vagina can exert, deadens the nerves and builds endurance.

The first time my Wife and I had sex, I lasted over 90 mins... fun for her, she came 3 times and I was happy for her, but it got very frustrating for me.

Eh, no. It doesn't 'deaden the nerves'. It might affect your libido, but it has no physical effect on your penis.