I had good look on Adamantois, but I think it might be closed to new toons. Cuerel or whatever is a good server, too. It's been a hot minute since I played, but those are the two servers I was on.
all servers are in the same locations (montreal) and they are all very similar. they all have bad and good free companies (guild) just join one that has your friends on it if you know people that play. You might have to create a character early in the morning since alot of the more populated servers are locked to new characters during peak hours 4pm-11pm ish or more