Pick up trick for this weekend

[Deleted]

The weekend is coming up again. For some people that means game time, for others it means going out and trying to score time.

As some of u might know, I used to be a bartender for a few years back when I was still single. During that time me and co-workers often thought up ways to get one night stands, and try them out evenings that we worked. One particular trick worked out very well, and since I see people with alot of problems regarding women on these forums, I thought i'd share this particular one. See it as my gift to the community. Due note that these tricks are for getting laid. If your looking for a serious relationship, I advice to ignore this.

The particular play (lets call it "the ugly duckling") is a psychological one and goes as follows:

Most groups of girlfriends have ugly girl that is just not fitting in comparison to the group. Often the main reason shes there is because it makes the other girls look even better. Shes your main target, and heres why:
1. When this particular girl gets attention while the others are ignored, the others start second guessing themselves.
2. When you give her attention, the other girls start questioning their attractiveness.
3. When you give her attention, it makes YOU look like a nice guy for not only careing about looks
TLDR: You look good, they get insecure.

So you spend some time with her, make small talk, and get yourself aquinted with the group. As the evening follows you slowly move your interest to one of the more attractive girls. At this point, assuming you played your cards right, your pretty much already in. The girls will want to re-establish their confidence about their attractiveness and you decide the rules on how they can.

The particular moment of swapping over interest however is a tricky one. Too soon, and they will think you used their friend as a get-in card. It takes some practise. But heres the beauty:
Even if you cant get with any of her friends, you can still get with her! And in the wise words of B.S: Sometimes you got to plow a 4 to appreciate an 8.

So, maybe a fun test for this weekend: Try this one out. I know it worked for me and my colleagues, im pretty sure it might work for some of you aswell. And if your striking out often, what have you got to lose by trying it right? If you though, i'd like you to post your experience with "the ugly duckling" on this thread.

Good luck!

PS: This applies to most mainstream women aged 18-28. Alternative/metal/rock scene wasnt really our thing, might not work there.
PS2: Club/bar setting
PS3: Might not work on sober women

Testimonials:

can confirm, this trick is solid gold. has worked lots for me

Works.
These kinds of things are just tricks. Just because they work doesn't mean you should do them.

[Deleted]

This sounds like a really bad romcom script.

[Fencers]

This is humorous to me. I hope all the MMO-C forum readers interested in picking-up a woman at a bar try this out and report results. Hahaha!

[Deleted]

This sounds like a really bad romcom script.

Or a chapter of one of those really bad "Pickup artist"-books.

Also, I don't see the point in trying to purposely make others feel insecure. :/

[Deleted]

This is humorous to me. I hope all the MMO-C forum readers interested in picking-up a woman at a bar try this out and report results. Hahaha!

Works.

There are better ways though, and frankly with Tinder who needs to hang around in bars any more.

These kinds of things are just tricks. Just because they work doesn't mean you should do them.

[ItachiZaku]

It definitely helps when that ugly one has something favorable anyways. Nice tits, ass, wears glasses etc It's also easier when they get separated from the herd - 2 make drink runs for example.

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There are better ways though, and frankly with Tinder who needs to hang around in bars any more.

This way can be more fun though, the learning and chasing process I mean.

[Sykol]

Somebody just watched Hall Pass.

[Succath]

This so sexist and superficial that I can't even right now.

First its not really sexist, its a game which is played by both genders when clubbing. or are you so naive to think woman wont do the same to get what they want.
Second, everyone who goes clubbing in general are superficial, almost nobody will look at the ugly girls they all go for the cute ones (this also goes the other way around).

[Deleted]

This way can be more fun though, the learning and chasing process I mean.

It's just too much effort.

All of these tricks work for the same reason: it shows you're willing to just get in there and talk to a group of girls without being afraid.

Having a plan, any plan, even one that makes no sense, helps most guys get enough confidence to just get in there and start talking.

Doing that already puts you above 90% of men who just stand there and stare creepily, or open with random compliments that just show pathetic neediness.

[Wildtree]

The weekend is coming up again. For some people that means game time, for others it means going out and trying to score time.

As some of u might know, I used to be a bartender for a few years back when I was still single. During that time me and co-workers often thought up ways to get one night stands, and try them out evenings that we worked. One particular trick worked out very well, and since I see people with alot of problems regarding women on these forums, I thought i'd share this particular one. See it as my gift to the community. Due note that these tricks are for getting laid. If your looking for a serious relationship, I advice to ignore this.

The particular play (lets call it "the ugly duckling") is a psychological one and goes as follows:

Most groups of girlfriends have ugly girl that is just not fitting in comparison to the group. Often the main reason shes there is because it makes the other girls look even better. Shes your main target, and heres why:
1. When this particular girl gets attention while the others are ignored, the others start second guessing themselves.
2. When you give her attention, the other girls start questioning their attractiveness.
3. When you give her attention, it makes YOU look like a nice guy for not only careing about looks
TLDR: You look good, they get insecure.

So you spend some time with her, make small talk, and get yourself aquinted with the group. As the evening follows you slowly move your interest to one of the more attractive girls. At this point, assuming you played your cards right, your pretty much already in. The girls will want to re-establish their confidence about their attractiveness and you decide the rules on how they can.

The particular moment of swapping over interest however is a tricky one. Too soon, and they will think you used their friend as a get-in card. It takes some practise. But heres the beauty:
Even if you cant get with any of her friends, you can still get with her! And in the wise words of B.S: Sometimes you got to plow a 4 to appreciate an 8.

So, maybe a fun test for this weekend: Try this one out. I know it worked for me and my colleagues, im pretty sure it might work for some of you aswell. And if your striking out often, what have you got to lose by trying it right? If you though, i'd like you to post your experience with "the ugly duckling" on this thread.

Good luck!

PS: This applies to most mainstream women aged 18-28. Alternative/metal/rock scene wasnt really our thing, might not work there.
PS2: Club/bar setting
PS3: Might not work on sober women

Could have said it all in 2 short sentences, known to men for centuries......

1. Still Waters Run Deep.
2. Aim for the wallflowers.

[Cantheal]

If you want the TLDR version ask you father or grandfather if the age old saying is true.

Treat queens like whores and whores like queens.


Not meaning for it to sound sexist or objectify woman and the same thing holds true if it was a woman treating a man that way. It is human nature. As in "why does he/she treat me like this, nobody has ever done so my entire life" so it plays off human nature.

[Deleted]

Yeah sure lets use all the less attractive girls as nothing else but ticket to their friend's snatches. Great idea.

I'm a man. I'm allowed to talk to an ugly girl in order to get to her more attractive friend.

I have no duty or obligation to sleep with unattractive women, it's my choice who I sleep with.

[Feali]

Thank you 1950. (No I don't mean because of sexism but because this trick is so old.

[Rukh]

Have you tried going up to a woman and striking up a conversation? Your "trick" doesn't work for people who aren't sociopathic assholes unfortunately, as they have this unfortunate downside of having a conscience and feeling bad for using people.

[Fencers]

It is most amusing that on the same forum where I have read the MOST about Feminism I also have read the MOST about about picking up girls, talking to girls, where to go on dates and virginity.

This is a fascinating perfect storm of male heterosexuality in this tiny little subforum. Incredible.

[Revi]

I could swear that this "trick" was off of a movie.

Yeah, I think it's in several. Quite a well known strategy.

[ro9ue]

Oh, to be in my early 20s again.

[Kerath]

Oh, to be in my early 20s again.

Funny enough, this thread had me thanking my lucky stars I'm not in my early 20s anymore.

[Deleted]

so trying this tonight at home with the missus!

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I could swear that this "trick" was off of a movie.

a beautiful mind

https://plus.maths.org/content/if-we-all-go-blonde

[Rukh]

So people actually like getting older? Damn...

I've enjoyed my 30s so far way more than my 20s.

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I'm a man. I'm allowed to talk to an ugly girl in order to get to her more attractive friend.

I have no duty or obligation to sleep with unattractive women, it's my choice who I sleep with.

Yep, there's many total douchebarges in the world. Completely legal. And it's completely moral for people to point out what they are too.