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  1. #481
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alectis View Post
    Some people aren't ready for it yet, and if you can't accept that there is something wrong with you.
    If you aren't ready then why start having sex? That's the argument being made in the OP. Why take your cloths off, get into bed, start doing it and then go "oh wait, this isn't what I want."

    Bottom line, if you don't want it don't do it and don't fool others into doing it with you when you don't want to do it in the first place.
    I haz beta!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lilla Blomma View Post
    Rofl, "as important as sex". Sex isn't important. People can change their minds about it at any point before or during it.
    Obviously its important enough to have a thread at 25 pages long concerning the do's and don'ts involving crimes that stem from sex.
    Quote Originally Posted by scorpious1109 View Post
    Why the hell would you wait till after you did this to confirm the mortality rate of such action?

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    No, it isn't. It's dickish, but not too late. It's too late when the act is done.
    Grawr!

  4. #484
    Quote Originally Posted by ActiveTroll View Post
    Really? What are you, a fucking dog?
    Once adrenaline and testosterone get beyond a certain threshold, that's exactly what happens. As much as gender theorist like to believe otherwise, you can't change certain things about biology.

  5. #485
    Quote Originally Posted by Templar 331 View Post
    If you aren't ready then why start having sex? That's the argument being made in the OP. Why take your cloths off, get into bed, start doing it and then go "oh wait, this isn't what I want."

    Bottom line, if you don't want it don't do it and don't fool others into doing it with you when you don't want to do it in the first place.
    Because people are people. Some people may want something until they actually try it, and realize they don't want it anyway.
    Grawr!

  6. #486
    Quote Originally Posted by ActiveTroll View Post
    Really? What are you, a fucking dog?
    really? so you can turn your wants on and off like a faucet? ok, go want something you dont want RIGHT NOW, do it!

    like, stop wanting to talk about this subject, do it, right now!!

  7. #487
    Quote Originally Posted by Kangodo View Post
    So you're saying that if a woman wants to be perceived as polite and friendly she should continue having sex against her will?
    If we viewed all interactions the way you and blom do, life would be pretty fucking stupid and random.

    "oh, no I didn't stand her up, I just changed my mind and decided I no longer wanted to go on the date" It wasn't rude though, it was his choice! and according to another poster, we can't control what we want or don't want.

    "Sorry, I didn't finish the dishes, part way through, I just lost interest." according to you guys, nope, not rude.


    some guy gets himself all snazzed up, buys flowers, the dinner, pays for the night out. They go back to his place, women is ready and willing to have sex, she agrees to it, they are banging down and then she says "you have a small dick, please stop". In what universe is that NOT rude? Sure it's her choice, but it's a rude as hell choice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Templar 331 View Post
    If you aren't ready then why start having sex? That's the argument being made in the OP. Why take your cloths off, get into bed, start doing it and then go "oh wait, this isn't what I want."
    That's just how certain fickle minded people are. They are always changing their minds, like a 4 year old child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Templar 331 View Post
    This is the best part. Women who put themselves into situations while not caring about the consequences have themselves partly to blame. This "don't blame the victim" BS is retarded. Yes he did rape you, but you leading him on into a situation where you think you are in control and then it turns out you aren't is partly your fault. If you don't want it to begin with stop it before it starts, not halfway through.
    How can a woman spot if the guy is a rapist or not before anything happens? It's not like women choose not have sex just to be annoying. Maybe she started to feel uncomfortable or the guy started to act differently. Normal woman would first assume that the guy will stop like any other normal guy. Her actions partly leaded to that situation but rape is always the rapist's fault. Blaming victim is a bad thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lilla Blomma View Post
    Rofl, "as important as sex". Sex isn't important. People can change their minds about it at any point before or during it.
    Our bodies can turn off hunger when sex is guaranteed.(trying to find the article but no luck on it. >.>) It's pretty damn important.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ActiveTroll View Post
    If we viewed all interactions the way you and blom do, life would be pretty fucking stupid and random.

    "oh, no I didn't stand her up, I just changed my mind and decided I no longer wanted to go on the date" It wasn't rude though, it was his choice! and according to another poster, we can't control what we want or don't want.

    "Sorry, I didn't finish the dishes, part way through, I just lost interest." according to you guys, nope, not rude.


    some guy gets himself all snazzed up, buys flowers, the dinner, pays for the night out. They go back to his place, women is ready and willing to have sex, she agrees to it, they are banging down and then she says "you have a small dick, please stop". In what universe is that NOT rude? Sure it's her choice, but it's a rude as hell choice.
    when it comes to allowing OTHERS to touching your personal body, yes, its never rude to not want them to touch you, ever

  11. #491
    Quote Originally Posted by HomeHoney View Post
    really? so you can turn your wants on and off like a faucet? ok, go want something you dont want RIGHT NOW, do it!

    like, stop wanting to talk about this subject, do it, right now!!
    That's your entire argument. They wanted sex, and now like a faucet turned off, they no longer want it. So now you disagree with yourself?

  12. #492
    Quote Originally Posted by Templar 331 View Post
    Our bodies can turn off hunger when sex is guaranteed.(trying to find the article but no luck on it. >.>) It's pretty damn important.
    I can "turn off hunger" when I'm focused on something as well. Like, I can not eat for a whole day unless someone reminds me to if I'm immersed in a really good book or game because I'm not feeling hungry. Doesn't mean the book or the game is important.

  13. #493
    Quote Originally Posted by ActiveTroll View Post
    That's your entire argument. They wanted sex, and now like a faucet turned off, they no longer want it. So now you disagree with yourself?
    THEY did not PURPOSELY turn it off, it JUST HAPPENED, l2read, activetroll

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    Quote Originally Posted by ActiveTroll View Post
    That's your entire argument. They wanted sex, and now like a faucet turned off, they no longer want it. So now you disagree with yourself?
    You can't exactly control when you want to have sex.

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    It's never late, even after you have started.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xarim View Post
    She believes it's unrealistic for women to think they can drink like men and still be safe

    It is a little late, after you are both undressed, to say "I don’t want this."
    1) That is unrealistic for both men and women. You drink till kingdom come, your judgment (and eventually your body) gets compromised and thus you are in a very vulnerable position.

    2) It is late, yes. But it is not too late. If both people care about each other, they will not proceed if either party is uncomfortable.
    Ofc if you go home drunk with a stranger that doesn't give a shit about you and merely wants a chance to plug his USB in... well all bets are off from the moment you are alone with him.

    Protip: Men and Women tend to lose control / inhibitions when drunk. Thus they might say and do stuff they would not if they were clear minded. Refrain from ingesting ethanol in large quantities. It is poison.
    And stay the fuck away from drunk people, because only god knows what they might do next that they will seriously regret in the morning.

    Yes you guessed it: I am no fun at parties.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HomeHoney View Post
    THEY did not PURPOSELY turn it off, it JUST HAPPENED, l2read, activetroll
    again, what are you a dog? your emotions are so unstable that they flip 180 at a pin drop? Controlling our actions is what differentiates us from wild animals, yet you seem to be suggesting that there is a subset of people that are just incapable.

    seriously, if your mind changes so swiftly and your emotions are all over the place, you are little more than a child or wild animal. See a shrink.

  18. #498
    Quote Originally Posted by Lilla Blomma View Post
    Only if you think someone has an obligation to have sex with you and that they somehow skip out on that when they change their mind.
    The very act of asking to stop is rude but the person asking to stop has the right - everyone has the right to be rude.
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    This is the party(GoP) whose frontrunners are being wiped out by an overly aggressive meme generator with a cheese puff on its head by their own supporters. I wouldn't credit them with the intelligence or foresight not to burn toast, much less have a long term strategy underway.
    Truer words have never been spoken.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tianae View Post
    How can a woman spot if the guy is a rapist or not before anything happens? It's not like women choose not have sex just to be annoying. Maybe she started to feel uncomfortable or the guy started to act differently. Normal woman would first assume that the guy will stop like any other normal guy. Her actions partly leaded to that situation but rape is always the rapist's fault. Blaming victim is a bad thing.
    Yes, how could he know that she didn't want sex when she took her cloths off and got into bed with him..........

    Yes a man who forces sex is a rapist, but the blame partly falls on her for consenting to the situation. She consented up until the act was being committed. At that point she has every right to stop, but if he doesn't then she put herself into that situation where she's in bed with a rapist. Sad as it is she is partly to blame for her actions. Had she had not agreed to that point she wouldn't be there.

    Like I said, I don't condone rapists but people are responsible for their actions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ActiveTroll View Post
    See a shrink.
    Rofl, what. You're aware that one can feel like not having sex anymore due to various reasons, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PosPosPos View Post
    The very act of asking to stop is rude but the person asking to stop has the right - everyone has the right to be rude.
    No, it isn't rude.

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