Victims of other crimes often shoulder some of the blame for beng stupid. Wrong neighbourhood, being drunk and obnoxious around the wrong people, leaving their laptop on in view inside an unlocked car.. Etc
When it comes to rape however, many seem to ignore the world we actually live and rather focus on the one we should be living in. personal responsibility goes out the window when it comes to rape and instead we get #victimblaming anytime someone suggests that perhaps her poor decisions contributed to the outcome. It's not taking away from the crime committed, or defending the rapist to point out someone's poor judgement and decisions.
I'd love to visit Syria without becoming an ISIS hostage and losing my head, and in a perfect world I could. But we don't live in a perfect world no do we. There's evil everywhere, why make yourself more vulnerable?
So, is it her fault? Can't say I like that bold statement, but her decisions and subsequent actions put her the situation to begin with. Doesn't absolve the man of rape of course.