So the idea behind marriage is that you make a commitment to spend the rest of your life with someone else. But in the current (US) system there is a lot more behind. With the average divorce costing 15k, lawyers costing 250$/hour and a minimum 6 months after a divorce petition to have the case reviewed, it is both time consuming and expensive.
In some cases the divorce process has taken longer than the couple was actually together. Between heavy alimony charges and questionable 50/50 splitting, is the marriage/divorce process fair? In few cases, such as what happened to Robin Williams, a prenuptial agreement can be overturned.
Or is the entire system a fair economic system and people need to be more responsible about the relationships they get into? According to the American Psychological Association(APA) 40-50% of married couples will divorce, this number drastically increased in the 70's and has only recently started to decline. Is it a system of naive people getting into relationships and marriage being too accessible or is it a clearly broken system for profit?
Why is divorce important when talking about marriage? Because so many people in the US will divorce.
A low(er) end wedding will cost less than 10k. This number does vary, but the average wedding cost is closer to 26k.
10k+(15k*50%)=~17.5k just to get married.
The whole idea of this is, if you love someone, why get married? Why go into a system which costs so much money? Why not just be together and not make a religious or legal promise but a promise based on trust that you two will always be together.