"Just be yourself" often just means "never have to get out of your comfort zone," which is very counterproductive to many different worthwhile human endeavors.
People with gender studies degrees going to great lengths to justify all that time and money spent on them. Of course they'd like all guys to be Pajama Boy from a few years back, but we can't or won't.
The Fresh Prince of Baudelaire
Banned at least 10 times. Don't give a fuck, going to keep saying what I want how I want to.
Eat meat. Drink water. Do cardio and burpees. The good life.
and how exactly is it worthwhile to pretend to enjoy being someone you dont enjoy being for the length of an intimate relationship with another human being?
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if getting laid is worth being unhappy the REST of the relationship, go ahead on with your masochistic self!
That's exactly what you are. Before that we are nothing. Ever heard the saying: "We are but the sum of our experiences."?
The more important question is: Why does "society" try to change people that "society" has created itself?
Eventually I don't care, I am not in this world to live up to someone elses expectations and they aren't in this world to live up to mine.
Would you rather be miserable and alone or would you rather be married and wishing you were dead?
Something like that, yes?
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Fake it till you make it and all that. Plus maybe you do enjoy being that person, so long as its with the right person. Its a big dishonest for people to claim they never adjust the way they act when dating someone.
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Aw I'm not in your sig anymore. I'm hurt Scyclone :'(
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No such thing as 'unhealthy' masculinity, quite the opposite actually.