You seem to be conflating "too drunk" with "passed out". These are not the same thing. Someone can be too drunk to provide what qualifies as legal consent, but seem relatively lucid, particularly to someone else that's also too drunk to provide legal consent.
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If I get blackout drunk, don't remember what happened to my money, but have someone saying, "you actually bought a big round of drinks, it was like 100 bucks dude", I'm going to be disinclined to claim that I've been robbed. Not recalling something due to extreme inebriation is something I have experienced, but I don't generally insist that I'm not in any way responsible for anything I did of my own volition.
Again, people seem to be conflating "blackout drunk" with "passed out". To be clear for anyone that's not familiar, "blacking out" is drug-related amnesia - it doesn't indicate a specific level of inebriation and isn't something than an observer will necessarily know is occurring to the inebriated individual, especially if the observer is also drinking.
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Oh, I think we all know the answer to that.
Making alcohol illegal for women, obviously they need protection from the evil patriarchic beverage that was solely invented to muddle their choice making process and allow men to court them and succeed that they would otherwise find undesireable. (No, not talking about someone being blacked out, entirely different situation altough some people want to tell us there isn't any between having drunk a single glass and being blacked out).
I think this paragraph captures the heart of what is going on. Most people who have sex with someone who is drunk is also drunk themselves and there is a disconnect between that fact and who gets often charged with being a "rapist" in this new Drunk Sex = Rape society we live in.
While it can be legally tricky, I don't think it's necessary from an ethical standpoint to build a highly specific set of rules; I would prefer to consider cases individually, as there are quite a few shades of gray. I've had sex with my wife when I'm clearly beyond any legal ability to consent, but I don't think any reasonable person would have an ethical qualm about it. In stark contrast, a stone sober person having sex with a very drunk person they met is behaving in a predatory fashion; whether it's "rape" or not, it's clearly unethical. There's tons of murky middle ground in the middle with considerations including prior relations between the people, inebriation, apparent inebriation, enthusiasm level, and more.
funny his last line is be an adult and start acting like an adult... um let me tell you buddy as an adult, ITS YOU FUCKING RESPONSIBILITY TO PROTECT YOURSELF. yes you deserve to be fucking robbed walking down certain streets with fucking money in your hand. you straight up deserve it, now i cant say the same for rape cause u fucks will go insane, but yes a woman needs to protect herself or she failed. end of story
It can, however, an ass-naked gorgeous woman does not deserved to get raped any more than a conservatively dressed Mormon does.
Should we lock our cars? Yes. Are we at fault if someone goes into our unlocked cars and steals from them? No. Could we have done better to protect ourselves? Sure.
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So basically, people need to differentiate between justified victim blaming and not.
If your negligence contributes to a crime committed against you, then you assuredly have part of the personal and moral responsibility, even if not legally.
"My successes are my own, but my failures are due to extremist leftist liberals" - Party of Personal Responsibility
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If you are not careful in life you are more likely to be the victim of crimes (of any kind). That it a simple fact that you can whine about all day but it is the way it is.
Is it fair? No.
Are you to blame? No.
But you are still stupid/naive as feck if you ignore the fact and more so if you try to get others to ignore it.
Rape is thought of as, a man penetrates a woman without her consent, sometimes by force, intimidation, etc. With that in mind anything that harms children or women is taken more seriously as a man is suppose to be able to defend himself from such situations. I don't mind, I value my wife and children's life more than my own.