Red Flags in dating?

[blobbydan]

Even a minor whiff of SJWness. Nope. Nope. Nope.

[TITAN308]

There are subtle indications in the profile picture that she's massively overweight, though. People don't really have necks that bulge out unless the rest of them does too.

Its a poor example I just grabbed off Google, but I'm assuming you get my point. LOL

[Tennis]

My red flags would be:

she is an anarchist, communist, nazi, related to stalin, too dark skincolour, too thin, iPhone user, has a beard, likes to talk about Islam/religion, votes for the greens/leftists, reads the Bildzeitung.

So much blatant racism ....wow.

[Medusa Cascade]

If she has a bulge in her pants that is a problem.

A very awesome problem imo

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So much blatant racism ....wow.

Not being attracted to people with dark skin is racist now?

[Tennis]

A very awesome problem imo

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Not being attracted to people with dark skin is racist now?

Definitely.
Oh you're cute, you're fit, you're smart, you have a good job, you're funny but sorry, you're too dark. Bye.

[BuckSparkles]

A very awesome problem imo

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Not being attracted to people with dark skin is racist now?

Yes, I remember I was discussing dating with somebody online (WoW guild). I mentioned I wasn't really fancy on dark skin. They went "Wow, you are a racist and should stop dating."

SJW logic.

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Definitely.
Oh you're cute, you're fit, you're smart, you have a good job, you're funny but sorry, you're too dark. Bye.

You need to have physical attraction. Some races have different physical features, even if very faint, in terms of facial structure.

[pateuvasiliu]

Gets mad when I don't let her check my messages or facebook.


I don't care who you are, when a friend talks to me through messages I ensure those conversations are private. If they can't deal with my right to privacy they're likely fucked in the head and it's better you run.

[Tennis]

My red flags :

Doesn't share the same values and worldview as myself
Plays MMOs
Considers herself a gamer
Overweight (althought would I even be in a relationship with her in the first place..)
Not intelligent
Not witty
Gets offended easily
Cries easily
Uses phrases like "if you love me you would accept me how I am"
Isn't fit
Gets influenced easily
Has annoying friends
Helicopter parents
Has no personality
Smartphone zombie
Checks facebook etc too often
Lazy
Doesn't exercise often
Isn't flexible
Is manly
Doesn't make me feel really blessed and fortunate to be with her
Hesitant to introduce her to family
Out of shape
rounded shoulders
smartphone posture
Doesn't know how to make herself look presentable
Isn't sweet and loving
She's named...(nah not gonna give this one away)
Immature
Expects me to shower her with gifts to show I love her
Doesn't appreciate nature and the simple things in life
Likes to eat unhealthy
Doesn't have a reasonable fitness level
Out of breath just walking up the stairs
Tries to blackmail me to get me to do things I don't want to do
Struggles to push open a door
Doesn't have a lot of similarities
Doesn't know her place
Isn't interesting
Struggles to keep a conversation going
Hates reading and watching the news
Too heavy to lift up
Poor personal hygiene
Dyes her hair
Wears too much makeup

[Lodreh]

I like em just a little crazy... YMMV.

~ Cackle... if she doesn't have a mischievous cackle... not talking about a laugh I mean a real goosebump inducing cackle... stay away.
~ Self confidence... if she constantly ask what I'm thinking or do I think she's pretty... just a huge turn off.
~ Self respect... if she whines about her looks or size instead of actually doing something about it.
~ Scars... really if you haven't lived your life then get out there and make some memories.

^ If she is missing any of this... then she's not worth my time.

[pateuvasiliu]

She's named...(nah not gonna give this one away)

Wanda? Wylla?

[Tennis]

Wanda? Wylla?

Nope. There's certain people I have a bad history with and would rather forget.
Would kind of suck if your wife had the very same name.

[Maruka]

If a girl loves and rides horses, tehre is an extreme chance she is crazy and i just stay away.

[BuckSparkles]

Nope. There's certain people I have a bad history with and would rather forget.
Would kind of suck if your wife had the very same name.

I hear you. Names are important.

I can't date anybody with my mothers name, my sisters name, or any other female relatives name.

Cause if I thought about sex with that person, I would unintentionally think about my family members having sex, which disgusts me.

[Tennis]

I like em just a little crazy... YMMV.


~ Scars... really if you haven't lived your life then get out there and make some memories.

^ If she is missing any of this... then she's not worth my time.

Lmao this is not the type of thing to aim for. Scars are no joke.

[Mistame]

Definitely.
Oh you're cute, you're fit, you're smart, you have a good job, you're funny but sorry, you're too dark. Bye.

^ Confused on what "racism" actually is.

[Slaskra]

She has an SS tattoo.

Actually happened, online dating is awesome.

I read this in Krieger's voice, and it didn't sound so much like a complaint

[Nymhi]

My red flag goes off and went off when he kept talking about his boxers the whole evening...

[zenkai]

What are the red flags for you in a relationship?

if she has more than 2 pets, especially cats

[Moralgy]

Several sizes? Well, that's alot of padding, if you're A, and wear C

Oh god that would have to be uncomfortable. I wouldn't dare go up more than one.

[May90]

Definitely.
Oh you're cute, you're fit, you're smart, you have a good job, you're funny but sorry, you're too dark. Bye.

It is hardly racism if you do not have sexual attraction towards black people, just like it is hardly sexism if you do not have sexual attraction towards one of the genders. Not being physically attracted to someone on the basis of their skin color, and simply disliking someone on the basis of their skin color, are very different things.