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    The question you asked and the title of the thread make it obvious. I'm sorry. "Some men are EVEN considering divorced woman" lol
    The article also talk about woman with physical disabilities or mental retardation but you want to know about a divorced woman.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter Blossom View Post
    In China, it's actually seen as a thing you don't do. A Chinese woman is seen as "ruined" once she divorces - shame on the family, etc. Traditional old-world views are still very prevalent there. Many Chinese men won't even court/marry a woman that isn't a virgin.
    I understood that already. I just think it's stupid. And really close to the islamists bullshit. Weird they dont get the same kind of internet shitstorm the Muslims gets for their way to treat womens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by death87 View Post
    what the hell is wrong with marrying divorcees?
    Fool me once...

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    Quote Originally Posted by death87 View Post
    what the hell is wrong with marrying divorcees?
    Its both a religious and a cultural thing... not saying its right...

    Technically speaking though if you believe in the Bible Christians should believe that:

    (1) The only reason for divorce is infedility
    (2) The woman cannot remarry

    To the article itself it definitely changes some immediate responses to things like life size sex dolls, and waifus.

    One has to laugh at the short sightedness of the Chinese people though.

    (1) You limit families to 1 child per couple
    (2) Chinese people prefer male children (to carry the family name)
    (3) The male child cannot fulfill "duty" to carry family name because there is no one to procreate with

    So you have simply put off the death of the family name by 1 generation *golf clap* except that you have also killed your bloodline because you didn't have any daughters either...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theodarzna View Post
    Generally I've heard that divorced women and or women with kids are kind of a red flag, but I don't think its UBER taboo in America right now. Though I think in general marriage is dissolving away as a cultural force in the United States.
    Many had been getting married quite early on in their relationships. This leads to having to fully getting to know someone, after you are already married. Which can easily lead to finding out you are not a compatible match. Some should learn to take their time, and really get to know someone. Rather than meeting someone, and by the end of the year ending up married.

    I sorta blame TV. They romanticize the love at first sight, and married within a few months sort of situation. And some people (sadly) are heavily influenced by television shows.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Groh View Post
    They dont like each other, that's for sure. Terrified? I don't think so.

    Anyway, if Japanese women there do not want their men, the idea of being with a Chinese man is even worst.
    why, they look similiar and aren't pussies, uh I mean feminine men

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theodarzna View Post
    Generally I've heard that divorced women and or women with kids are kind of a red flag, but I don't think its UBER taboo in America right now. Though I think in general marriage is dissolving away as a cultural force in the United States.
    It is, for various reasons. It's not a good choice at all for something as "important" as this with so many strings attached.

    Quote Originally Posted by De thuong View Post
    You sound paranoid, you can't see into the future and know what will happen few years forward.
    You severely underestimate the monetary risks aswell as other problems involved here. They might be less so in China but in Europe/the US/Canada they're really pronounced.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taftvalue View Post
    why, they look similiar and aren't pussies, uh I mean feminine men
    Because history. Check it out. (From both side! Because it's not the same history in both nation's history books)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Groh View Post
    Because history. Check it out. (From both side! Because it's not the same history in both nation's history books)
    I know they kinda hate each other, but they're a perfect match now.

    The Chinese men need women, the Japanese women need men.

    Let there be love!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Partysaurus Rex View Post
    Its both a religious and a cultural thing... not saying its right...

    Technically speaking though if you believe in the Bible Christians should believe that:

    (1) The only reason for divorce is infedility
    (2) The woman cannot remarry
    It also says in there ask and it shall be forgiven too. If I'm not mistaken.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Logwyn View Post
    It also says in there ask and it shall be given too. If I'm not mistaken.
    But yes you can ask for forgiveness... doesn't mean you can be remarried. Listen I don't personally believe that's the case...

    The bible also gives you permission to beat and sometimes put to death your wife... but I don't believe that either.

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    What? Are divorced women suddenly unfit for anything? China didn't see this coming when couples were aborting girls? The rest of the world did. I'm surprised they're not already the global gay and polygamy capital. This will reduce the next gen population.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Groh View Post
    They dont like each other, that's for sure. Terrified? I don't think so.
    All Asia scared of Japan

    They almost lost their shit when Japan started building real army again.
    (Japan don't have real army after WWII)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taftvalue View Post
    I know they kinda hate each other, but they're a perfect match now.

    The Chinese men need women, the Japanese women need men.

    Let there be love!
    You know that makes a Hell of a Lot of Sense
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    So having sex is immoral and shameful?
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    Yes, and unsanitary as well. IF it wasnt it wouldnt be censored on TV and in movies (outside of porn)

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    Quote Originally Posted by greeeed View Post
    All Asia scared of Japan

    They almost lost their shit when Japan started building real army again.
    (Japan don't have real army after WWII)
    It's because Japan doesn't have a real army that I cant believe China is scared. China have a real army. In fact I cant believe China is scared of any country in the world. They have the nuclear like the big players and they can throw more soldiers/canonflesh than anybody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saninicus View Post
    DISCLAIMER this is only my cynical view on marriage so take it with a grain of salt.

    In a community property state such as Texas unless you plan on having kids there is zero incentive for a man to wed. Almost everything we can gain can come from a stable long term relationship. As far as messing around with divorced women? Wouldn't matter much to me as long as their ex isn't clingy or i'm compared to the ex constantly.
    There's all the incentive in the world. It's like you have a job but no benefits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Partysaurus Rex View Post
    Its both a religious and a cultural thing... not saying its right...
    Which religion? Religion has nothing to do with it. It's more like if she's not good enough for him....... or there must be something wrong with her if he dumped her like trash...and I don't do trash......

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    Welcome to what the one child policy was meant to do, lower the population.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kathandira View Post
    Many had been getting married quite early on in their relationships. This leads to having to fully getting to know someone, after you are already married. Which can easily lead to finding out you are not a compatible match. Some should learn to take their time, and really get to know someone. Rather than meeting someone, and by the end of the year ending up married.

    I sorta blame TV. They romanticize the love at first sight, and married within a few months sort of situation. And some people (sadly) are heavily influenced by television shows.
    People have gotten arranged marriages to work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dextersmith View Post
    Which religion? Religion has nothing to do with it. It's more like if she's not good enough for him....... or there must be something wrong with her if he dumped her like trash...and I don't do trash......
    What if it's her who bumped him for cheating or being a violent asshat? Do we have to assume that if a woman is a divorcee, it can only be her fault?

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