I realize this place is for fun, interesting topics but... i just feel so bad, and dont frequent any other social websites. I just.. i dont know. i needed to get this out?
my dog has been sick for a little over a year. she had a condition called auto immune hemolytic anemia, which required several blood transfusions to save her. it took many months of high powered drugs, from march to november. november was her last pill and she was back to herself and finally drug free. then she relapsed 3 days after christmas. again with the transfusions and drugs.
she stabilized again and we were hopeful, deciding early on she was just going to be one that needed drugs for a lifetime. she started playing again and her disease was well controlled. Then i woke up one morning and felt the lymph nodes in her neck were swollen.
I tried to have hope but i knew it was cancer. Vet appointment only confirmed it.
because of her history with Prednisone she wasnt even eligible for chemo. i dont know that i would have done it, but not even having that choice really upsets me. there was just nothing at all i could try this time. prednisone makes them highly resistant to chemo.
this was a few weeks ago and the time has already come that i need to let her be at peace. the nodes are now making it too difficult to breath, and i wont let her suffer. I have been a mess the entire time and she isn't even gone yet and i am so scared to face her death once it happens. i am sure the drugs gave her cancer, or rather, opened her up to it and i feel a lot of guilt but i still know she would have died a year ago without them. the year we had was a blessing and i was thankful she was with us still everyday. still, the thought that after all that the cure to one disease gave her another with absolutely no hope of survival kills me.