I don't really see why should I refer to someone as anything else than they are?
If I can clearly identify someone as a male, I'll refer to him as a he, if I can clearly identify someone as a woman, I'll refer to her as a she.
If, for some reason, I can't tell which sex the person is, I'll go with a guess and hope I get it right.
Genders are largely irrelevant to me, since people can make up anything these days and expect special treatment - I don't seek to offend anyone but I will refer to people by their sex.
I think there is no point to your Sweden hate threads. This is far from your first one and it is about all you post.