Who pays on a date?

[MatthewOU2015]

Hey guys,

This video popped up on my recommended feed and it got my attention. Not all women think this but some women still believe that the man should pay for the dates. It's a backwards way of thinking. It's 2016 women have jobs and should at least pay half if not all. I even heard men say "If a guy cannot afford to pay for the date, he cant afford to be in a relationship". Or my favorite line " Real men pay for their women". Regardless of who asks who, the guy and the girl should split the bill. What do you think?

[munkeyinorbit]

Whoever asked who on a date pays for date. simple as fuck.

[Captain N]

Whoever asked who on a date pays for date. simple as fuck.

Correct answer here.

Also if it's a first meet (like through Tinder or OKCupid) don't consider it a date. It's a meetup and both should be paying for their own cup of coffee. If it continues on as a date from there the previous rule applies.

[wowaccounttom]

the person with money

[May90]

Based on your poll, businesses must love serving homosexual pairs, since they might get double payment from them.

[kamal445]

Whoever asked who on a date pays for date. simple as fuck.

This.

Mostly is men asking women out that's why men pay for the dates.

[Sierra85]

neither.

try and run away without paying. You get a good story out of it to tell your future grand children.

[Celista]

Typically I whip out my credit card and we have the usual polite, "I'll get it", "No I'll get it", before we agree to split or take turns paying. If I know there won't be a second date I'll make sure that we split the check.

I'm not sure how familiar this forum is with Matthew Hussey but those women pay literally $300 or more to attend his in-person seminars, which should tell you a lot about the women you're seeing/hearing in the video.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle...ng-advice.html

[ArguesWithStrangers]

I'm going to go ahead and quote the most interesting man in the world on this one. "If you pay for only yourself, you usually get what you pay for."

[Endus]

Whoever asked who on a date pays for date. simple as fuck.

Secondary clause; if it's a "get to know you" date like a coffee or something, go dutch. Otherwise, pretty much that.

Of course, if a gal I'm seeing never tries to spend time with me, I'm taking that as its own not-so-subtle hint.

[Deleted]

Who the hell goes on dates

Get a coffee

It's 2016 girls should pay for dates the same as men do

Unless you're a sexist like me

[Celista]

Who the hell goes on dates

I go on dates :P

Some of us want something more than just hooking up.

[Deleted]

Hey guys,

This video popped up on my recommended feed and it got my attention. Not all women think this but some women still believe that the man should pay for the dates. It's a backwards way of thinking. It's 2016 women have jobs and should at least pay half if not all. I even heard men say "If a guy cannot afford to pay for the date, he cant afford to be in a relationship". Or my favorite line " Real men pay for their women". Regardless of who asks who, the guy and the girl should split the bill. What do you think?

if a woman has so little self respect to not insist on going half, then I dont want to date them.

Not on every date, but it should work out even.

[Deleted]

I go on dates :P

Some of us want something more than just hooking up.

You're a bit older the younger generation just hook up

[Celista]

You're a bit older the younger generation just hook up

I guess. Not that much older but yeah, there does seem to be a cultural difference.

[Crissi]

Whoever does the asking.

Although if one side is always doing the asking, I would start thinking about whether the other person is worth it.

[Annoying]

I go on dates :P

Some of us want something more than just hooking up.

Disgusting! /s

[Spectral]

Who the hell goes on dates

Get a coffee

It's 2016 girls should pay for dates the same as men do

Unless you're a sexist like me

This post made me smirk. Devilishly.

On topic, if I were single, she's buying her own drinks.

[Aeluron Lightsong]

Typically I whip out my credit card and we have the usual polite, "I'll get it", "No I'll get it", before we agree to split or take turns paying. If I know there won't be a second date I'll make sure that we split the check.

I'm not sure how familiar this forum is with Matthew Hussey but those women pay literally $300 or more to attend his in-person seminars, which should tell you a lot about the women you're seeing/hearing in the video.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle...ng-advice.html

I'd pay it normally(Unless it's absurdly expansive but knowing me I wouldn't go anywhere super special anyways)

[Katie N]

The man does or it's no date. xD