Oh I agree with the first paragraph; don't get me wrong. This was the reason why I didn't participate in that big "Outland Second Campaign" during Mists of Pandaria. Not only it didn't make sense to me as to why we are going to Outland in character to begin with, but a lot of shitheads on both sides wanted to take charge, and me and my group of friends laughed at them and continued our RP in Pandaria, despite being recruited "in character".
What I meant is, as long as you are sticking to coordinate/walk RP, you are fine for the most part. I am always looking for more people to RP with in a coordinated setting; feel free to hit me when you want.