Originally Posted by
Zombergy
There's a massive wealth of information to be gathered about the psychology of self and external validation as it pertains to PVP gaming.
Droves of gamers consider what they do in these video games to be a measure of their "personal skill" and nothing else.
The reality of most PVP gaming is that the balance (or imbalance) of its elements has more of an impact on victory than what any person can do (short of the obvious blatantly throwing a match, leaving, etc).
Yet rather than accept this simple fact of video gaming these people will insist, to the point of outright denial, that their "personal skill" alone was the relevant factor.
They essentially create a world of delusion (their denial of the realities of a programmed game) inside a world of fantasy (the game itself), this is the self validation side.
And in keeping with the general human condition of seeking the approval of others comes gaming's own take on the external validation model.
Where normal people seek validation from friends, family, peers, colleagues, etc, gamers seek validation from random internet strangers.
And even to warp the model further the validation they seek isn't positive but negative.
To one of these delusional people, having somebody point out the reality of imbalance to them is an invaluable opportunity to engaging in a nerd battle oh "qq u mad bro" caliber; ie the validation they seek.
The delusional person in question derives a thrill from this exchange and I bet if one of these people were hooked up to bio-monitors we would get the same brain-wave readings for their little nerd shit talk battles as we would for their fap sessions.