Wow i don't even know where to start.
Islam hasn't changed in nearly 1500 years and they pride themselves on that. To think you are holding out hope that it will change is highly naive.
There are more moderate muslims of course but history has proven time and time again that when they get a little too liberal, the hardcore muslims take back control again mostly through violence. They are the great leveler and the reason why they don't change.
To think that they will change 1500 years of blood sweat and tears just to suit your views on sexuality is highly offensive and arrogant to the extreme. You have no chance of seeing that change ever.