You can only pick one.
I personally have too many goals that I want to achieve in life that simple out way love in my view. I want to learn classical dances such as the Salsa, Tango, Merengue, Waltz, etc. I also want to learn a second language, spend some time living in different cultures, get really in shape, run a marathon, learn to play the piano, lean more math and science, make lots of money, fix a project car, buy a house, etc. The world is just too big with too many things to do, so love takes a second place for me.