Originally Posted by
eschatological
It has to happen somewhat artificially, or it won't happen at all. That's the point. I think this latest election proved there's enough white people who think they're superior to people of color to make a difference.
Now, I'm not white, but I'm pretty well integrated. English is my first (and really only, unless you count high school Spanish) language. A lot of that had to do with religion, we were at Mass every week, and people accept people of the same faith fairly readily. I don't call myself an Indian-American, I consider myself an American (a point JonTron said he wants to see in the U.S.).
The problem is: the groups who tend to identify themselves by ethnicity or some other identifier, do it as a matter of reclaiming (on a sociological level) the term which was once considered offensive. Indians like myself integrated well because our group wasn't oppressed when we came here, even though we range from taxi drivers to doctors and governors. But every group that does identify like that does so because that's how they were once identified. Look at all the self-identifying movements: Gay pride, Irish pride, Italian pride, Hispanic Americans, Native Americans, African Americans. They were all oppressed, and now identify with their group for solidarity and to reclaim it. It's much like how young black men call each other "nigga", to reclaim a vile word once (and occasionally still) slung at them. Hell, "Yankee" was originally a slur aimed at American colonists, and they reclaimed it too. It's simple sociology. You have to have pride in who and what you are before you can assimilate into a larger society.
Every time someone says, "I'm just an American, not a XXXX-American," it's usually because they're separated from any oppression of that group. The English Americans weren't oppressed when they came here, hell, they founded the country. Same with the German-Americans, who largely fled here after WW2. Etc, etc, and so on, and so forth.
Ironically, my ethnic group is now starting to call itself "Indian Americans" more and more often, and it coincides sharply with white people shooting Indians because they think they're Arabs and/or Muslims. There was a spike of that after 9/11, and it's happening again now.