What does exclucivity mean to you?

[Gamdwelf]

Starting this thread after getting in an argument with my friend. He got angry with me after making him sound like a "piece of shit" his words after meeting some of his friends from his home town. They had taken his phone and seen that he was messaging probably 7 different women in a more than friendly way. He went on to describe that he was exclusive with one of them showing messages where he had stated as much to her.

The problem that they picked up on with him saying that is even though he says hes being exclusive with her and is 100% committed to her he has had 2 other women that he has been sexually involved with and 5 others that he is messaging with and starting at least verbal relationships with. These are women that he me on tinder, etc.

So my question posed to the great people of MMO-C is does that seem exclusive to you? How do you define exclusivity in a romantic relationship?

[mickybrighteyes]

that someone misspelled Exclusivity?

[Gamdwelf]

that someone misspelled Exclusivity?

Fuck auto correct ok.

[Deleted]

Starting this thread after getting in an argument with my friend. He got angry with me after making him sound like a "piece of shit" his words after meeting some of his friends from his home town. They had taken his phone and seen that he was messaging probably 7 different women in a more than friendly way. He went on to describe that he was exclusive with one of them showing messages where he had stated as much to her.

The problem that they picked up on with him saying that is even though he says hes being exclusive with her and is 100% committed to her he has had 2 other women that he has been sexually involved with and 5 others that he is messaging with and starting at least verbal relationships with. These are women that he me on tinder, etc.

So my question posed to the great people of MMO-C is does that seem exclusive to you? How do you define exclusivity in a romantic relationship?

Not trying to fuck other girls like this guy is.

[elaina]

Don't think there is room for much debate here. Exclusive means no others. He can talk to other girls nonsexually and also watch porn, that's about it.

[Azadina]

Starting this thread after getting in an argument with my friend. He got angry with me after making him sound like a "piece of shit" his words after meeting some of his friends from his home town. They had taken his phone and seen that he was messaging probably 7 different women in a more than friendly way. He went on to describe that he was exclusive with one of them showing messages where he had stated as much to her.

The problem that they picked up on with him saying that is even though he says hes being exclusive with her and is 100% committed to her he has had 2 other women that he has been sexually involved with and 5 others that he is messaging with and starting at least verbal relationships with. These are women that he me on tinder, etc.

So my question posed to the great people of MMO-C is does that seem exclusive to you? How do you define exclusivity in a romantic relationship?

If the rest of the story is accurate, the problem isn't that you made him sound like one, but that he has made himself one. Then he gets mad at you for being called out on that crap.

[Gamdwelf]

If the rest of the story is accurate, the problem isn't that you made him sound like one, but that he has made himself one. Then he gets mad at you for being called out on that crap.

AYYYY, that's what his friends from his home town said almost verbatim

[Independent voter]

In grandpa's time you dated several women at once until you found one you wanted to "go steady" with and this is the one you might marry. There wasn't a whole lot of premarital sex though.

Today we go steady and have premarital sex so yeah. I guess as long as the women he's dating know what he's doing it's okay if he's keeping secrets it's not okay.

[Machismo]

Their really is no ambiguity in what "exclusive" means. I'm not sure why you even need to be asking this question. What you really want to hear, is that your "buddy" is a male slut, who doesn't care about it. And of course, this means you are morally superior to him.

[Deleted]

It's not really ambiguous and there isn't much room for enterpretation, the word has a pretty solidly defined and widely accepted meaning.

[Thoughtful Trolli]

Starting this thread after getting in an argument with my friend. He got angry with me after making him sound like a "piece of shit" his words after meeting some of his friends from his home town. They had taken his phone and seen that he was messaging probably 7 different women in a more than friendly way. He went on to describe that he was exclusive with one of them showing messages where he had stated as much to her.

The problem that they picked up on with him saying that is even though he says hes being exclusive with her and is 100% committed to her he has had 2 other women that he has been sexually involved with and 5 others that he is messaging with and starting at least verbal relationships with. These are women that he me on tinder, etc.

So my question posed to the great people of MMO-C is does that seem exclusive to you? How do you define exclusivity in a romantic relationship?

He's correct, not the friends.

Essentially, by being born we've all entered into an unspoken contract that lies are okay and truth is what we want it to be. This includes directly harming others by lying to them about that fact, and proposing anything else, as being okay.

So long story short, he's living and you're just ruining his game. His definition is correct and your definition is wrong. If you doubt that, see what's written above.

I really wish it wasn't that way but, once it's done to you, you'll understand. Then you'll do it to everyone else.

If you don't think you will, it will only be because it hasn't been really done to you yet.

Perhaps commited in some sense but exclusive? Errr. Maybe he's exclusively eating at fancy restaurants with her, or bodily fluids are a no-go with his other sex partners.

See this is one of the monsters trying to hurt you. He's just trying to keep you out of the Harem Pool. You can fight back, and be really happy, by sticking your dick into anything that moves at your leisure and pleasure. Use protection though; the next level up is monsters (this same guy is also probably part of next level) who chuck around STDS for fun.

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Their really is no ambiguity in what "exclusive" means. I'm not sure why you even need to be asking this question. What you really want to hear, is that your "buddy" is a male slut, who doesn't care about it. And of course, this means you are morally superior to him.

It's not really ambiguous and there isn't much room for enterpretation, the word has a pretty solidly defined and widely accepted meaning.

These guys are both successful and correct, but for different reasons of the spectrum.

Notice one of them told you the truth and one of them lied to you, the liar being the guy suggesting your question has an answer and supports you. As diametrically opposing as they are, they are united in demonstrating that you can manufacture your own reasoning and truth. Which means you're wrong because you're infringing on someone else's truth, not manufacturing your own.

infracted - minor flaming

[Flatspriest]

Exclusivity means to the exclusion of all others. Which means you pick one and stay with that one while staying away from all others. Your friend sounds like a pile of lying shit.

[Revi]

To me, exclusive means you're not trying to hook up with others or flirting to line up other options in case your current deal fails.

[Medusa Cascade]

Only have one waifu. But secretly have dozens

[AeneasBK]

that someone misspelled Exclusivity?

Thankyou

[Cosmic Janitor]

Your friend is a garbage .

[AeneasBK]

He's correct, not the friends.

Essentially, by being born we've all entered into an unspoken contract that lies are okay and truth is what we want it to be. This includes directly harming others by lying to them about that fact, and proposing anything else, as being okay.

So long story short, he's living and you're just ruining his game. His definition is correct and your definition is wrong. If you doubt that, see what's written above.

I really wish it wasn't that way but, once it's done to you, you'll understand. Then you'll do it to everyone else.

If you don't think you will, it will only be because it hasn't been really done to you yet.

If any of this is true why on earth would the friend describe himself as a piece of shit?

[HumbleDuck]

Why are you friends with this guy again?

[Sanguinezor]

I just sense jealousy from OP and his friends.
Can he not do what he wants?

Marriage and Monogamy have been a dying trend for years now.

From what I understand from what you said about your "friend".
He considers himself exclusive to her, however if they are not married nor engaged.
The choice is with him.

You can say that you want to be with a female forever, but if there are circumstances on her side that stop it.
Then why must you be shackled.

The way you are trying to use exclusivity seems to suggest that "You belong to her even if you aren't actually together and are bound to never touch nor speak to another female ever again"

[Spectral]

Yeah, he's pretty obviously a lying degenerate. I'm not really a fan of promiscuity in general, but if someone's open and honest with everyone involved, I can't really critique it that much, but if you tell someone you're "exclusive" with them and you're not, then that's a pretty serious breach of trust.

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Why are you friends with this guy again?

A lot of degenerates are fun to hang around with.