Well ok then I guess I had it figured wrong, my apologize because I agree. We shouldn't conflate one issue for another, just because one cares about other people's suffering doesn't mean people don't need a break recharge their batteries and do what they want to do away from what they have to do, so they can deal with the very world that creates all that.
My whole point is that the convenience although annoying, is troubling, and more so because I can't instantly help putting up with someone playing an online game the way it wasn't intended.