I have an affair with tennisace - he doesn't know and my partner doesn't know about it. But I'm sure tennis will accept my feelings one day
I have an affair with tennisace - he doesn't know and my partner doesn't know about it. But I'm sure tennis will accept my feelings one day
It's also featured on here, the top newspaper in Canada. Nice try. Almost.
https://www.thestar.com/life/2017/09...al-affair.html
Ah, you mean the paper that you *didn't* copypasta from? Might as well go with the fact that both papers are running something from Washington Post ("By Lisa Bonos The Washington Post") then, right?Originally Posted by Tennisace
None of those sources are Tennisace on mmo-c. We're still left with Tennisace dredging up the same crap three times in less than a year. So, nice attempt at deflection, nice passive aggressive, but still a fail. I see you already did the regular poke at the US with your STI article, are we getting the fat thread next or did somebody steal your thunder on that with their fat thread?
With COVID-19 making its impact on our lives, I have decided that I shall hang in there for my remaining days, skip some meals, try to get children to experiment with making henna patterns on their skin, and plant some trees. You know -- live, fast, dye young, and leave a pretty copse. I feel like I may not have that quite right.
The issue with "emotional cheating" is its just a physical affair lying under the surface. Something is building up.
Or the jealousy someone feels towards this emotional connection of their significant other having with someone other than themselves., would build into resentment. Regardless its most likely the cause of an underlying issue in the original "monogamous" relationship. Not something that should happen, in my opinion, but nothing you can do without going to the source of the issue.
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Why did you create a new thread? Use the search function and post in existing threads!
Why did you necro a thread?
The heck does that matter? I already said I'm bi. I find men and women both attractive. My partner is a man, my bff is a woman - and, incidentally, also my ex-girlfriend. My partner trusts me, and he knows I'd never go behind his back, because - guess what - I won't.
Jealousy is not an inherent part of monogamy. At least, it certainly shouldn't be.
If your SO is dumping their emotional nonsense on someone else...
...dump your physical nonsense in someone else.
Thanks for the ad-hominem; it supports your inability to support your argument.
That article, like the others you've posted, is unadulterated stupidity. If you're not fucking, you're just friends. There's no such thing as "emotional cheating" as "cheating" is a physical thing. The people that subscribe to this garbage are just the types who are naive and insecure. If having friends, even close ones, of the opposite sex is detrimental to your relationship, your relationship is the problem.
He and some of the other repeaters should get together. Then they can sync their cycles.
It's basically just making excuses for insecurity and jealousy. Rather than deal with it themselves, they push it onto the normal people.
As I said above, if your platonic friendships are causing problems for your relationship, your relationship is the problem.
I dunno, this is sketchy shit.
If you're in a romantic relationship with someone with whom you do not have emotional intimacy then that's probably a problem. If you seek emotional intimacy elsewhere that's probably also a problem. Does it amount to cheating? I dunno. Frankly, who gives a shit?
I think the bigger point is that most people are literally just plain stupid to begin with, they possess little in the way of self-awareness, they aren't emotionally mature in their relationships, many follow scripted behaviors thrust upon them by family, religion, society, and beyond all of that many play social games as described by Transactional Analysis (this is really just more ignorant scripted behavior).
I have a profoundly good relationship with a woman I adore. I respect her intelligence, as a person, sexually, and I greatly admire her beauty. We don't run scripted behaviors at each other, we don't play games, we speak respectfully with no name calling even if we are having a heated discussion, we discuss deep issues with no stones left unturned. We're partners in life looking down the same road.
We are open, honest and affectionate every day. It's truly lovely.
Soon I shall be having a short trip to visit family, do some wine-tasting, and visit with an old girlfriend. I had a serious relationship with the Ex some years back that lasted about 8 years, kinda stormy too. Normally my wife accompanies me and we do all of this together, but not this time. There's trust in all of this, nothing will happen that hasn't been agreed upon. I love my Ex but it didn't work then, and it's not going to work now. But I do occasionally enjoy her company and its not a thing.
My partner knows I shall be pining for her the whole time we are apart, and its a short trip anyway. When I return haste will guide my steps.
Emotional... cheating (*groan*). Sounds silly and it's an extremely slippery slope what you define as such. I mean, can a woman have any guy friends at all if it's forbidden to talk about anything deep with them? Hell, can she have any friends of any kind? Goes the other way too.
Though it can't be denied emotional cheating (*gurk*) is a portal to widening your sight and seeing potential in other people, realizing your SO may be lacking in certain aspects. Just, that is the case with anyone; you'll always find people who are better in some aspects and worse in other. Who's to say this guy you find yourself infatuated with is better in the long run than the one you're currently shacking up with. You might just go through relationships this way, always finding other people more desirable than the one you're with.
That's why compromising is part of a realistic relationship. Accept the deficiencies of your mate and resist the allure of other people. I'd say it's easier to resist emotional cheating (*blergh*) if you establish transparency with your mate early on. Honesty about what you like and don't like, your history if it comes up, their history if it comes up, everything that makes you you and what makes them them. If you don't find that clear package desirable enough to spend the rest of your life with, then it may be a good idea to move on to the next one.
Or it might actually make resisting harder, now that I think about it. You know everything about them so the allure of mystery is gone, but other people have it in abundance.
Relationships are haaaaard.
I call absolute bullshit on this post.
I think everyone is free to talk about anything with anyone.
If you don't talk about your future plans with your current boyfriend... who's fault is that?
Did you try? Why is it not working?
I've been having an emotional affair with my family and friends for 10 years, I even do it with random strangers that I meet if they seem willing to listen. I am ashamed for sharing my thoughts and feelings with anyone. If she finds out that I speak to people and discuss how I feel inside, she might leave me. Help me! How do I learn to bottle everything up and keep all of my emotions and feelings inside?
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Just grunt and growl everytime. Words might be taken out of context. Also don't forget to beat her when she fails to read your mind about something.