"You have been matched!"

[Allybeboba]

Most people in cities don't... It's something I notice more with people age between 20-40,

Wow...
Hell, I have three cars and truck.

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He might come visit your town sometimes or you his/hers. 40miles is not a lot if you have a car or can take a bus/train. You or he/she doesn't have to just go on a date, go visit each other towns and ALSO go on a date. If date sucked at least you visisted a new place!

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Tell your mother to go over 20 mph and you can cut that journey time down significantly.

The quickest route from Halifax to York (43 miles) is 1hr. I concede 40 miles isn't too far, but I get matches for like Essex and Portsmouth

[melodramocracy]

Motorways and even then you're looking at a long journey

Unless you have a car and money very few are willing to regularly travel more than 3hrs for a date, let alone a relationship

Weird. 40 miles one way isn't terribly uncommon for a work commute here. I wouldn't see it as much of a hurdle, but everywhere is different I suppose.

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He might come visit your town sometimes or you his/hers. 40miles is not a lot if you have a car or can take a bus/train. You or he/she doesn't have to just go on a date, go visit each other towns and ALSO go on a date. If date sucked at least you visisted a new place!

The number of guys that say anything over 20 miles is too far is very high.... Personally 3hrs is my max

[Trollhammer]

40 miles is far? I used to commute that from my hometown to Nottingham..

I met my wife in London. She was Norwegian.

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40 miles is far? Hahahahahahahaha...

I met my wife in London. She was Norwegian.

I don't do long distance relationships... Had 3 all terrible and all ended due to distance

[Independent voter]

If there was a hot girl 40 miles away waiting for me I'd figure out how to get there one way or another.

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You're welcome to find me a route from Halifax to York in 20 minutes

[Ehrenpanzer]

40 miles is like a 2hr+ car journey,

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That's what's odd it's set at 30 max

Maybe if you a driving a Pinto.... Around 45min for anyone with the ability to drive the speed limit of most places in North America.

[Kalis]

The quickest route from Halifax to York (43 miles) is 1hr. I concede 40 miles isn't too far, but I get matches for like Essex and Portsmouth

You’re a bummer, if you lived somewhere like Brighton your nearest match would be 40 yards away. If I was looking for redheads, then I’d have to go a long way as well, due to the lack of gingers in Malta.

[Darknessvamp]

Don't use dating sites so no. Don't they usually have a messaging system so you can chat with your match to see if such a trip is worthwhile or is it one of those instant hookup sites?

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You’re a bummer, if you lived somewhere like Brighton your nearest match would be 40 yards away. If I was looking for redheads, then I’d have to go a long way as well, due to the lack of gingers in Malta.

If I lived in Manchester I would have it on tap

[Kalis]

If I lived in Manchester I would have it on tap

But you don’t live in Manchester, so you’re fucked.

Or in this case...not fucked.

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Loving the blog, where do i subscribe.

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But you don’t live in Manchester, so you’re fucked.

Or in this case...not fucked.

TBF Manchester is like a 40min journey but g'luck finding a gay Manc willing to travel lol I used to go every other weekend

[Kalis]

Loving the blog, where do i subscribe.

‘The trials and tribulations of the only gay in Halifax’, by Adam aged 31 3/4.

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Loving the blog, where do i subscribe.

It was a question

Y'know like many topics here... Opinion pieces and queries

[LiiLoSNK]

Meet halfway if distance is a problem?

[Svisalith]

Lol what do you drive? 40 miles can be traversed in 30 min or less.

Even if there was a highway from the door of house A to B that would be well over the speed limit