I'd boot you, there are obviously enough people in here that think the 13-58 spec does the same dps, and 3% hit rating is what? Eat a different kind of food and switch one gem... oooooooo. I don't know why you even posted this, unless you were planning on everyone saying you did right by them.
Either way regardless of what spec does more dps for you, I will boot anyone in any raid that refuses to pick up a buff and go spend some gold if it will help the raid progress. Raiding isn't just about your own dps, thats why they call them raid buffs. I'd boot an arcane mage if he refused to respec for replenishment. You didn't want to help the raid so you get booted, regardless of what kind of dps the rest of the group was doing. Boot boot boot.