I had the exact opposite experience. Jp players were always very eager to group up with us and did their best to communicate with us through macros. Being Italian myself, my Japanese ain't perfect
I had the experience you described with UAE players, all my friends actually. I'm not saying they're all like that, it's just our experience.
For me faster traveling removes the whole RPG aspect of an MMO. In wow, you won't see any old content once you hit 80, you can basically travel around the world in 10 minutes. In FFxi traveling to, for example, Jeuno, (where you had to level up past 10) took you roughly an hour. This meant that once you were in Jeuno, you'd stay there for quite a while. A few days later (about 5) you'd be level 20, only then would you travel back to your home town. This, for me, is the actual feel of an RPG - having to adventure to new places as if you would travel in life. The trip from one place to another, should feel like a journey with all perils of it. Not like in wow: auto fly from A to B and be afk in the meantime. I don't even consider wow an RPG, when you raid you teleport in an instance, kill the bosses and log out... Why? Just to grab a new epic item.
But that's just my opinion, I can imagine others disliking that.
edit: I just read a few of my posts and I think I know why I stopped raiding some time ago, I actually don't really like this game anymore - moment of awareness here!