So here's the deal: (Wall of Text INC)
Over the last couple of weeks, some guildmates of mine (well, actually some of them ex-guildmates, but that's irrelevant here) and me had been part of an inter-guild 25-man ICC raid, comprised of members of about 5 different guilds on our relatively low-pop realm (Todeswache-EU). We were doing good, but not great - we usually managed the 1st four bosses just fine, but were unable to beat Festergut (due to hitting the enrage timer) or Rotface (due to... stupidity, I guess... people dying unnecessarily). Even so, things were going as well as you could hope, considering raid setup, average gear level, and people's skill.
Now comes the 'fun' part: the main of one of my ex-guildmates mentioned above, who played his lock alt in this raid, is in the #2 raid guild on our realm, and as such, he knows all the encounters inside out, while most others (including the RL) were still trying to grasp the encounter mechanics. While he had actually kept really quiet up to that point (the only thing he'd usually say was that he'd go grab another beer from the fridge... a big mistake, as we were to find out later...), he spoke up in vent to explain his raid's tactics on Rotface, which were (rather rudely IMO) rebuked by the RL "We do it our way.". Regardless, he kept his calm and did his best, continuously ranking 1-5 in damage done, never wiping the raid, never actually doing anything wrong, while others kept dying in fires/doing crappy DPS. To be exact, 4 of the top 6 DPS were "my people", as well as the top 3 healers and one tank.
Now when the invites for last week's raid went out (via the in-game calendar), we found that our mate had not received one. Obviously, we thought he'd just been forgotten, especially since the invites weren't done by the RL himself, but by a guy we had actually had good relations with. So my GL (one of the healers mentioned above) inquired what had happened three days before the raid, and the guy told her he didn't know really, and that he'd check it out with the RL. Come raid day, he finally had the answer: our mate's invitation had been cancelled by the RL himself. He didn't know why exactly, but that's the way it was.
My GL immediately cancelled her invitation out of protest. I, on the other hand, felt that it was unfair towards the ~15 uninvolved people to cancel on such short notice and accepted the invite, along with my remaining (ex-)guildmates, intending to find out the reason why one of the raid's most experienced players had been removed without an apparent reason. So I joined the raid, said hello, and stated that 1. kicking good players without reason is unacceptable, 2. I was only there because I felt committed to the ~15 uninvolved people and 3. unless things were cleared up, they'd have to find themselves another healer.
Here's where I think I made a mistake: the RL asked me to logg on Vent and he'd explain his reasons. I, however, was in TS3 with my mates, arguing on how to proceed, and declined, stating that he didn't have to explain it to me but to the lock, to which the priest "Co-RL" piped up why I was making "such a wave" If I didn't care myself. This made me furious, kind of derailing my argument with the actual RL, who had meanwhile posted his reason for kicking our mate:
He was, qoute "continuously stoned and unable to comply with RL instructions" end quote. We were like... wtf? ???
Firstly, he was never stoned while raiding, only having 3-4 beers over the course of a raid, secondly, he never did anything harmful for the raid. He was constantly near the top of the meter, always switched targets wherever needed, never pulled aggro, never died in fires, nothing. If anything, the tank (his best mate IRL) was the one that truly was stoned most of the time while raiding... :P In contrast, the "co-RL" kept dying in fires, sometimes as often as three times in a single Marrow'gar fight (SS->BR-> :-X). The thing that irked us the most, however, was that they didn't even tell him that he had been kicked at all, let alone why... There had been no warning, no "please stop being stoned and listen to the RL", nothing. What did they expect? That we'd suck it up and continue?
In the meantime, my other mates had joined in, namely the tank, who offered to overlook the RL's 'mistake' if the lock were invited again the following week (yes, being stoned actually has a mellowing effect... :P) and the ret, who wasn't quite as mellow... The RL, however, was not to be argued with. He kicked another of his top healers (me), one of his tanks, and his top damage dealer out of the raid, after which the third healer quit as well, leaving only one of my mates (the other hadn't signed up that week due to RL reasons). He had kept out of the argument for the most part and still felt committed to those uninvolved, so he stayed (as would I have done, if the RL hadn't kicked me), but stated that he wouldn't raid with them in future. So the final toll of the evening was: one tank, the top three healers and two experienced DPS down (+2 who wouldn't sign up in future)... suffice to say that the raid didn't get very far that evening... ;D
But still, after a week of contemplating, I'm still not sure if we did the right thing by, in effect, rage-quitting over the issue... it felt right then and there, but the fact is: finding a good 25man raid is hard on our realm, and every week not doing 25man ICC is precious Emblems of Frost lost. I raid ICC 10man quite successfully as a feral tank with our realm's #4 guild, but the only real upgrades I can still get are from 25man, and the tank spots there are taken... it sucks not to be able to get a shot at those upgrades anymore just because Person X (the RL) doesn't like Person Y (my mate), and one thing leads to another... I've even considered contacting the RL and try to restore the status quo ante bellum, but while he might even be willing, I know most of my guildmates would not, as they took the issue much more personal than I did. So here I am now, stuck without a 25man ICC raid...
TL;DR: A mate of mine got kicked from our 25man ICC for a phony reason, even though he had done nothing wrong. Me and a few other mates (the raid's top 3 healers and 3 of the top DPS) got kicked as well for sticking up for him/left in protest. Now we're stuck without a 25man on a relatively low-pop realm, while the RL has weakened his raid considerably.
What would you have done in such a situation? Would you have stuck up for your mate or would you have swallowed your anger and continued on?
And what you do in my stead now?