vigilance should not be causing you to do less threat or anything, maybe on aoe he might get a "tiny" bit ahead of you, but from what ive seen warriors do helluva a lot more threat then dks in aoe, especially blood tanks (this is from personal experience so dont flame me) also i really hope the only reason u were mt wasnt just because you had more hp than the warrior tank, youre a dk, your supposed to have more. but seriously though, if vigilance is giving you trouble then you may as well say blessing of sanc is giving you trouble, or w/e the disc priest buff is. its not hurting you at all, the only way it could hurt you was say you were doing PP and tank got 4 stacks of debuff, u taunted and the tank kept whaling on the boss and his 3% extra threat from you let him steal threat and wipe the raid but any 1/2 decent warrior wouldnt do that. but in all honesty, its not vigilance, I think youre just trying to figure out how to threat as blood dk