Well I am very lucky I guess to be in a good 10 man guild that just /rolls. We are 6/12 hm and in mostly 10 man gear. We would be farther but haven't raided in close to a month due to RL. And I got hacked D: but that's another story. We all trust each other and there is no worrys of gearwhores etc. I do see how this would be difficult in a 25 man guild though. Either way I say try and help her and talk to the officers/gms. If they refer to boobies or such just go elsewhere.