First of all, yes, I know about raidbuffs only giving you the most powerful stat buff. But that explains why the benefits don't stack, not why only one buff may exist at a time. Take Fel Intelligence for example. It can exist if a Mage is buffing Int, because it gives spirit - but that proves that some buffs can exist together but one will just be inactive. So why cant this work with all buffs that overwrite each other?
I ask mainly because I play an enhance shaman specced into improved str/agi totem, which is better than Horn of Winter until people leave totem range. So sometimes its better for me not to use my STR totem. If both buffs could exist together (one being inactive ofc) this wouldn't happen.