edit: in case you've already seen Elfenlied (which fits your tags perfectly), those might work as well:
Chobits: humor, fanservice, some drama, some romance.
Shuffle: humor, drama, fanservice, romance.
Gunslinger Girl: psychological, drama, action.
Death Note: thriller, psychological, some drama, some fanservice.
and i don't feel like looking at every one of your list right now, but i will when i get the time/motivation^^
while i like that you tried to rate them, don't you think it's gotten a bit out of hand when there are more animes with 5+ rate than with 5- ? xDThis is on a five * scale. Anything Five+ You are SERIOUSLY doing yourself a disservice and must rectify the situation immediately. Seriously.
if you try do use a rating pattern, make sure all of your animes (from the worst to the "OMFG EPIC!!1"-best ones) fit in there. like giving a percentage: your 5* would equal about 70% then. NGE would be around 90% and Lain on 95-100%. keep in mind though, when you rate Lain with 100%, the whole pattern will cease to work again if there is EVER an anime that you actually like even more.