Blah so I broke down and instead of waiting for haswell decided to replace my i5 750 so ordered some new parts. Got me:
asrock extreme 4 (with free 8gb ram) didnt get it for this reason lol but well see how well it works with my ram i have lol if not Ill just continue using my old ram.
and a Samsung 830 128Gb
no reason to replace my other parts really and I dont feel like dropping the money for a badass video card just yet. Only wanted to spend about about 500. Will get new pics after I get my build redone in my case here in a week or so.