Please, my eyes are bleeding at this point... Stop whatever kind of QQ you have about heroics. They are harder for a reason, you need the skill level and the gear to achieve better gear. Using the Random Heroic Dungeon queuer won't always get you a good group. An easy fix is find a guild (even a casual one) that has competent players that enjoy running heroics.
Blizzard will not change this back! They made a HUGE mistake making the game Mickey Mouse in WotLK, lost a ton of skilled players due to it and, probably worst of all, attracted a bunch of pre-pubescent pimple faced males to the game, so they could OMGMETERS!
Stop. For the love of all things sacred.