I feel very fortunate, was alone til I was 25, got together with a girl for 2 months, had some fun and alot of tears, then it ended. Half a year later I got together with my best friend since a year =)
She is the one that got me into WoW and kicks my ass in raids, so I got a gamer girl that likes metal just like me. I guess good things really come to those who wait.
Just don't just sit on your ass while waiting, do other fun stuff, go places, take classes you like, learn kung fu or whatever you are interested in,
or you will never get into a position or place where you actually have a chance of meeting someone.
Nightclubs and bars isn't the best place for people like me to meet a girl in, believe me, I've tried that X)
My mother always said "What do you expect? If you want to meet a party animal/half drunk crazy girl, by all means go to nightclubs or bars. If you want to meet a gamer hardrock girl, go to concerts, conventions or the local internet café."