*sigh* So much of that is incorrect I don't even know where to start. At the beginning, I suppose.It's not so much an attack on you as it is a simple observation. You don't seem to like the multi-player aspects, you don't seem to like grouping, you don't seem to like PvE content in general, you don't seem to like PvP, you don't seem to like anything that is typically featured in MMOs. And again, that's not an attack (you seem to take it that way whenever the topic comes up) it's just what you've said. The only thing I've seen you comment positively on in an MMO is exploring.
Multi-player: When is this ever addressed outside of grouping?
Grouping: This is my single biggest complaint, obviously.
PvE: I enjoy every aspect of PvE outside of required grouping, so I can only assume you mean dungeons and raiding, which as far as I'm concerned falls under the banner of "grouping".
PvP: I don't like being 'forced' to PvP, that is and has always been an irritant. Lately I've started doing WvW because I want to, but there have been many LS meta events that were 99% PvE and then had one final achievement that required you to go into WvW (which as you well know is an invitation to PvPers to camp the influx of carebears). I had similar complaints about Children's Week in WoW, which was a huge hindrance to a lot of non-PvPers in getting the What a Long, Strange Trip It's Been achievement. (Not to mention that the typical response to this is "find others to group with to get it done".)
I've commented positively on quite a few things in MMOs, but apparently my criticisms are more memorable. Sometimes, yeah, certain aspects of MMOs aren't incorporated as well as they could have been. Using questing as an example, it's another area few MMOs seem to have improved upon (post-Cataclysm and GW2 seem to have made the most strides there so far). However, you appear to be confusing whenever I post how something could be improved with flat out disliking it as a whole, which isn't the case at all.
I'm not sure why I wouldn't get defensive when I'm essentially being told I say things I haven't said or at the very least what I do say is obviously grossly misconstrued if not completely ignored.