Originally Posted by
Kilperch
I'll try to keep this short.
I've been playing WoW for 3 years and I've seen a lot of things. Some of them good, some bad.
I remember spending many, many hours asking in trade chat for a tank for a heroic in BC. Times were different back then. Not better or worse. Just different.
Then Wrath came out, and eventually the Dungeon Finder. This changed everything. At first I thought it was for the better. More tanks and healers meant more heroics.
Then I realized I met most of my best friends pugging in BC. We'd group up, have a good time, exchange info and then group up again.
The Dungeon Finder pretty much eliminated that. It's good for faster groups, but I realize the chance of making new friends in a random is slim to none.
Getting to the point...
Because running randoms is so impersonal (I say hello when I join one, but I almost never see anyone respond or say anything the whole run), people are playing for themselves. Not for the MMO part. They're playing for the RPG part. Which is fine, until you realize those other four toons are actually played by human beings.
4.1 brought us two new dungeons. Each one has a chance to drop some pretty nice gear, including mounts and BoE epics.
Purple has an effect on people. When those BoEs drop, 50% of the time I have witnessed someone (who already has it, or something better) need it, then drop group. I kid you not. It's an epidemic.
But today, I decided to queue for an old heroic for an item I wanted but never got. A healing trinket for my main spec. Fast forward... I didn't think the trinket would drop. It did.
I rolled need. The enhancement shaman did too. I asked him kindly to pass it to me for my main spec. He said no.
He won the roll. I asked why he needed it.
He answered "I need the ilevel to get into the new heroics."
"But it's an upgrade for my main spec."
"You lost the roll, suck it up."
TL;DR - So anything goes in a PuG? Common courtesy is gone? I realize anonymity can turn people into jerks, but seriously... In 3 years of playing, I've never seen it get this bad.