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    Highschool girls with older boyfriends.

    so ive been out of highschool for 2 years now. but ive been thinking about a few of my friends (they were girls) who, when i would talk to them, always bring up in some way or another that they had a boyfriend (i never hit on any of them) and the fact that he was 20 years old or older. at the times we would talk about it happened in 10th grade (about 15-16 years old) so my question is: why do some highschool girls date older guys? is it because they want to seem more mature or something? or is it that they are thinking "smart" and going based off a thought of future security or something?

    ive got a little brother (hes 15) and my best friend and i always joke with him, saying he should introduce us to some of his lady friends lol (were 19)

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    Girls mature quicker than guys (I'm not claiming to be a scientist or anything) I guess girls just like finding someone with the same level of maturity. This probably varies from girls, though, personally thats why I'd date someone older, while another girl is dating an older guy because he can buy her alcohol and because its KEWL!

    Thats just my take on it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Digglett View Post
    Girls mature quicker than guys (I'm not claiming to be a scientist or anything) I guess girls just like finding someone with the same level of maturity. This probably varies from girls, though, personally thats why I'd date someone older, while another girl is dating an older guy because he can buy her alcohol and because its KEWL!

    Thats just my take on it.
    Oh i doubt it has anything to do with maturity. From what i have seen girls at this age are just as immature as boys.

    They probably just want to show that they are "powerful"

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    money and cars/bikes.

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    well on topic its agiasnt the law for anyone under the age of 17(in my state, 16 elsewhere) to engage in a relationship with someone over the age of 18..

    in saying that 1 of my best friends is 16.. im 22 and we are really close i know for a fact she likes me and i like her but we are both weary of the law. so we are playing it by ear and yeah..... she is a mature girl, she is very smart and capable of handling herself. in regards to that issue IMO that 16 should be the legal age because most schools i know of talk about safe sex and shit in PRIMARY school(year 5-6)...

    but hey theres my 2 cents
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    Quote Originally Posted by Snakez View Post
    Oh i doubt it has anything to do with maturity. From what i have seen girls at this age are just as immature as boys.

    They probably just want to show that they are "powerful"
    For some it would be a case of maturity, as I've said, not for all. I know theres very immature girls, which is why I said theres some who date guys for alcohol and so they look awesome, or yes, power works too.
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    Think some date older people just cause it feeds their ego.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Digglett View Post
    Girls mature quicker than guys (I'm not claiming to be a scientist or anything) I guess girls just like finding someone with the same level of maturity.
    This is not remotely true. 15 year old girls are anything but mature. In my experience, at that age, girls are MUCH more confused and in turmoil then boys, and in that state of mind a relationship with an older guy certainly would seem glamorous.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silentsnipe1212 View Post
    why do some highschool girls date older guys?
    They think they have something more to offer.

    Or they just want money. Which is technically "something more to offer" but yeah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raht View Post
    This is not remotely true. 15 year old girls are anything but mature. In my experience, at that age, girls are MUCH more confused and in turmoil then boys, and in that state of mind a relationship with an older guy certainly would seem glamorous.
    Actually girls aren't exactly the same as each other, despite you suggesting that. Some are mature by then (or earlier), some are not. Same goes for boys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Digglett View Post
    Girls mature quicker than guys (I'm not claiming to be a scientist or anything) I guess girls just like finding someone with the same level of maturity. This probably varies from girls, though, personally thats why I'd date someone older, while another girl is dating an older guy because he can buy her alcohol and because its KEWL!

    Thats just my take on it.
    Stereotype. This is wrong.
    I'd say there is at least as many immature girls as there is guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Derivatives View Post
    Stereotype. This is wrong.
    Puberty wise, yes girls mature faster than guys, and what exactly am I stereotyping?


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    i think he thinks you think girls "mentally" mature faster than boys digglett. from my experience its not right, ive only known 2 girls in highschool who i would deem mentally AND physically mature.

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    In the age range where this is still a little weird, the girls can't drive -- finding a boyfriend who can is a huge bonus.

    By the time they can drive it's not so weird.

    At least, the age for a license is 17 here in Texas so that's how I see it happening

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silentsnipe1212 View Post
    i think he thinks you think girls "mentally" mature faster than boys digglett. from my experience its not right, ive only known 2 girls in highschool who i would deem mentally AND physically mature.
    This. I was saying attitude-wise. I know some 20 + year olds who can't get over "partying" all the time and they're failing out of school.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Penguin FTW View Post
    In the age range where this is still a little weird, the girls can't drive -- finding a boyfriend who can is a huge bonus.

    By the time they can drive it's not so weird.

    At least, the age for a license is 17 here in Texas so that's how I see it happening
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    More worrying are the 25 year old guys dating 15 year old girls.

    That shit's just wrong.
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    idk but i have noticed this as well, but i find it strange/creepy how a 20+ year old guy would even want to have a relationship with say, a 17 year old girl.
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