Hey I've seen a lot of people post these and I figured I'd post one hoping for some help.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and we recently got shipped off to college. We're about 14 hours apart now by car and I can't see her really. Well I bought plane tickets to go see her on her bday over fall break.
I've been in school for over a month and a half and she has been in school for 2 weeks. I'm not sure if this is just a case of super homesickness but I'm also her best friend since she doesn't have a ton of friends. Lately she's been really clingy, demanding I be on skype every single night for 4 or 5 hours and a few days ago I fell asleep and didn't get on and she blew up at me. I am extremely nervous that if I break up that I may make her feel awful in the sense of physically harming herself...and she has done it before. I'm thinking that maybe this long distance thing will not work since I barely have time to finish my homework for classes and I pretty much never get to see or make friends here because I have to be online from 8 at night till midnight and I have 4 classes a day from 9am till 3pm and do homework and see my friends at dinner. Earlier today though I saw a friend who I hadn't seen in almost 2 weeks and he was wondering what happened to me and I feel like I'm being distanced from the friends I did manage to make because I have to talk to her for the "set" time or she gets furious.
If anyone has any advice please help, and I'm sorry if my post is kind of all over the place.