Originally Posted by
Trassk
Okay people, time for a real life lesson in blame.
You want to blame Thrall for Garrosh, not because it is his fault, but because you just want to take a poke at Thrall despite him having saved your characters worthless backsides.
Well heres a lesson in why blame and blaming someone for anothers actions is never justified. See recently, my father died, he died from liver cancer after spending most of his life drinking. I grew up hating him for being a worthless deadbeat and never being there for me, my brother or mother. And yet, despite knowing it wasn't her fault for how he was, there were times of complete anger for him that I also wanted to lump that blame onto my mum for the way he was, that she could have divorced him or put him in a home, and I hated how she seemed to just be waiting and doing nothing.
This of course was wrong, she was not responsible for the way he was, she didn't want to be stuck with him but held her time, knowing he'd kill himself. And even when he was diagnosed with cancer and was dying slowly, she took it upon herself to care for him in his weakened state. I realized that she was far more grounded then me, that despite him being a useless husband, she didn't have it in her to fully hate him, and as such, I realize all those times I blamed her for doing nothing to sort his drinking habits and spending all his money on booze, it wasn't her, the blame lay on him alone.
So, accusing someone else for the actions of another is just petty, everyone, is they have the capacity to do so, is responsible for there own actions, and if they mess up, should have the blame put on them, not those around them.
Just something to think about.